April 28th
I went to the temple today, and learned a little something about faith, or rather, my faith was strengthened. I normally don't go to the temple with a question because I'm afraid that I won't receive an answer while I'm there. Before I went to bed last night, I thought about it, and decided I should go with a question. My companion asked me a question and I thought about it. I couldn't answer it, so I took it to the temple. Lo and behold, I exercised faith and received my answer. It took me a little bit of studying, but I finally got it. Faith is such a deep yet simple subject. You can't have fear if your going to have faith. Don't worry about whether or not promised blessings and answers come soon. Just trust that they DO come.... always. There might be times that I don't receive my answers in the day that I go to the temple, but I know that as I continue going, and that as I read the scriptures, I WILL receive my answer.
Speaking of Jotty waiting for his mission call…I think our stake needs a mission prep class. I hear of a lot of wards and stakes in the USA have them.
Things are going well. We have a couple new solid investigators. One of them is a guy named Edgar, who used to meet with the missionaries, but was never sober. He finally sobered up, quit drinking, and wants to get baptized. Two others are Jose and Rosalva, a couple who are kinda going through some rough times. He's just been diagnosed with some mental disorders. He's really nice when we're around and I'm excited to be working with them.
Well, that's all for now.
P.S. I should be able to capture some live footage of zombies here in Las Vegas soon.
May 5th
So we set two people for baptism a couple days ago. Their names are Gaby and Brittany. Gaby is a mother that we contacted on the street. She said that she wasn't too interested, but that she wanted us to teach some stuff to her children, Brittany and Ashley (9 and 7 years old respectively). We taught them several lessons, and she
would "listen" as she did other things. Then she noticed that we used the Book of Mormon. She wanted to learn more, and she came to church as well. At our last appointment, she talked about how she really liked the things that she heard. She was quick to accept a date, and her older daughter is also wanting to be baptized. We are really excited,We had a Zone Conference on Monday, and let me tell you it was an amazing experience. President Christensen talked a lot about light,and about how we all have it, some more than others. We took a small hike up part of a mountain, and he invited us to take a couple of minutes, go to a secluded spot, and evaluate how much light we've gained since being on a mission, and how we can improve it. As I pondered, I felt the Spirit tell me (and I wrote this down too) "The attitude that I carry now is the same attitude that I had developed in the pre-existence. I promised my friends up there that I would find and teach them. Did I make a hasty promise, or was I a man of my word?" I have always considered myself a man of my word. I think you guys have too. I always knew that I made promises to friends, but when the Spirit had me ask myself whether or not I was a man of my word, I was struck to the heart. I want to work hard and fulfill my promise that I made. They were apparently very important to me back then, so why not be that important to me now? I love how the Spirit communicates with me. I love revelation.
So, to plan ahead. I'm planning on calling on Mother’s Day at 1:30 my time, which will be 3:30 your time. If it's a little later, it's because I'm still biking home from church. I'm looking forward to it.
We just got a missionary who came straight out of Russia. He is awesome! He knows English pretty well too, because he spent some time in Nebraska as a foreign exchange student.
I've been reading the New Testament again lately, and it's really depressing on how the Pharisees just didn't want to get it. Jesus one time talks about shooting beyond the mark. Think about it: If you want to hit the target with a firearm, do you shoot at it, or pick a target beyond the bull's eye? So many times the Pharisees went too far in explaining and interpreting scriptures, when in all reality, the answer was right there in front of them. Sometimes we do that too. We search and stretch our answers out in order to accommodate us, but the answer is right there. One example is caffeine. So many LDS say the caffeine is against the word of wisdom. Do they say it to it to make themselves seem more righteous? While it isn't a bad idea to avoid caffeine, it is nonetheless, a personal choice. The Lord only says, “hot drinks“, which specifically means tea and coffee. Shooting beyond the mark. It will destroy us if we don't watch out.
May 12th
The costumes look really good Mom. If you lived in Hollywood, you'd totally get hired. Then again, if we were in Hollywood, we'd also be surrounded by idiotic liberals. Wait sorry....... I'm supposed to refrain from political discussions right now.
We had a lesson with Gaby and Brittany. While we where teaching her about blessings, I asked her a very simple question that I usually ask all our investigators, "What are some of the blessings that God has given you." She then started to get teary and told us of her violent and tragic childhood, and how she's felt that God has been ignoring her, or that He doesn't love her. She said, "I want you both to tell me that I'm wrong, that I've misunderstood. I've been thirsty for a long time, and I want to know God." When we first met her, she didn't seem that interested. She just wanted us to teach her children. Like her, there are people out there that are, like Gaby said, thirsty for the truth. They look normal, and act normal, but deep down inside, they are dying. They long to know that God loves them, and that he has a plan for them. They search for answers that have long been unanswered. We never know how someone really feels until we introduce them to the Gospel. When they realize that we have the water that they've been looking for, that is when they open up. It was a big testimony
builder for me. These people ARE out there. We just have to find them.
Yes, I'm still with Elder Cunha. He's a great guy, even though our personalities clash at times. He's taught me a lot about accepting positive criticisms and being humble. I've really enjoyed serving with him so far.
We just dedicated the new mission office today. Just like the temple dedications, we had a mission culture celebration afterwards. All the in-valley zones came and did some skits and songs. It was really fun. Some of the missionaries in our mission have a lot of talent.
We got a referral from another missionary for a family that wants to learn. When the other missionaries met them, they asked questions like "How can I get the priesthood?" and "How can we be married for eternity?" We have our first lesson with them at 6:30. I'm excited to teach them.
P.S. Pres. Christensen says that I have to do something about my suit soon. My pants are so worn out. I’ve mended them as much as I can but they are about to fall apart.
May 19th
I DID get the suit and it DOES fit. I was so happy Mom. I think I was happier than when we got the Xbox 360 from Uncle Ross and Aunt Hannah. It fits very well and it feels very comfortable.
Everything else is fine. I'm very content right now, especially because I don't have to worry about a HUGE GAPING hole in my pants. Thanks a TON!
I have gained an even bigger testimony of the scriptures since I've been on my mission. I've received so much strength just from reading them, and they have answered several of my questions. Reading the scriptures is a commandment. The Lord expects us to "treasure up the word." Those who wrote the scriptures sacrificed time, talents, strength, and sometimes even their lives to give us what we have. How would they feel that we weren't using what they gave us. You know how it is Mom. You've seen several of your own children under-appreciate things that they have. Sorry to be preachy. I didn't mean to sound that way.
Something else happened in the past week that struck me. Do you remember Luisa? The cranky old lady? Well, she's been really sick and we've had a hard time getting the members to help her. We've done a lot for her, and when she needed to go to the hospital she wanted us to go with her. We called the Zone Leaders to get permission to leave the zone, and they asked the assistants, which ask President. Instead of going back down the chain of command, President called me directly. He told me that because we are missionaries, our sole purpose is to be master teachers of the Doctrine of Christ. We can't spend our time helping out people with their personal problems. While it hurt me to hear that, I realized that it's true. Our purpose is to teach the Doctrine of Salvation, and not to solve every little problem a person has. President said that Elder Cunha and I have a big heart (it's true, we both do), and that it'll be hard to leave it alone, but that we needed to have members or others solve the physical needs for us. Attitude really does depend on us. Ultimately, it IS Christ who makes the actual change, but WE have to ALLOW Him to change us.
Also, just a question for you. I've been thinking this for a while, and I want to know. Why is it that people feel safe around me? Luisa said that she wanted me to go to the hospital with her, because she sees me as the son she never had. She feels confident in me, and she feels safe around me. She's not the first one to say that either. _____ told me the same thing. She said she doesn't normally trust men, but that she trusted me a lot and felts safe and secure around me. What do you think?.... I don't really understand.
I don‘t know a lot that‘s going on right now but I hear enough to know politics are getting even more corrupt now. It's completely changed the mind of the people from being productive to being lazy. I was talking to someone and he said that the time when politics started to get corrupt is when the leaders started getting paid for their work. When this nation started, we had a semi-lay presidency. Like the church, the leaders back in the day didn't get paid. They had their own jobs. They did receive a little stipend in order to pay for travel expenses. I understand that there is more to do these days, but they honestly have too much money coming to them. That's the big motive: money, power, and the glory of man. Well, anyways, enough of my rant. Dad, I‘m sorry you have to put up with stuff like that.
I'm good here. Nothing big happening to us, but there has been some stuff happening. Someone just got murdered here near where we live. Don't worry though, because we are safe. This area is pretty sketchy though. There are a lot of people that only want welfare help too. Have to sift through a lot.
May 26th
I'm now in the East stake in the Ensign ward. I'm still in Spanish and am serving with Elder Carrasco. He came into the mission with me, so I've known him for a while. He's a way cool Elder, and is very kind too. I'm happy to be with him so far. He speaks more Spanish than English, so this'll be great.
WOO! Go Brice! Glad he likes Cub Scouts. I hope he stays in Scouts. That'll be so good for him AND his parents. I learned a lot in scouts, but it still pales in comparison to the things that I've learned on my mission.
So get this. In my area, we actually cover a part of the Strip. Yeah,the STRIP. I thought it interesting to note that the closer you get to the casinos and to the strip, the poorer the housing is. The closer you get to the temple, the better the housing is, and the calmer it gets. Also, the streets on the strip are four lane highways. There are expressways, and the freeway also has several exits and entrances the Strip. But at the temple, the four lane turns into a turn lane. It reminded me about the scripture that says the way to salvation is NARROW, and few remain on the path, but the gate to sin is WIDE, and the road down to damnation is WIDE as well. Many that live near the Strip live in poverty and poor housing, and it's really noisy and sketchy and dirty over there. Over by the temple, the people live in peace and serenity. Housing is big, comfortable, and clean. I'm NOT saying that money is happiness, but it did get me to think about sin and obedience. Those that indulge in and live near sin, live in spiritual poverty, while those who live in the ways of God, have a mansion in His courts on high. They are Spiritually secure and are at peace. Interesting correlation eh?
I DID get the package. Thank you so much! Even though I'm over a thousand miles away, you still manage to do things for me. Man, I've already past my 18 month mark. I'm only 5-6 pounds heavier than when I started, but I'm working on coming back lighter than when I left. Something that I've been doing to help me eat less is sunflower seeds. Sometimes I eat, not because I'm hungry, but because I simply want to eat something. It helps curb my appetite.
Jotty must be dying like I was when I was waiting for my call. Wouldn't it be cool if he came here with me? I've heard of that happening before. I could only be so lucky.
I appreciate you sharing your testimony Dad. We taught this one person who is 69 (Luisa), and on the brink of death. She has several serious medical problems. She's scared to death of death (I know, very punny). Whenever we tried to talk about the Spirit World and what happens after death, she'd start to cry and to get frantic. Several people have asked me before whether or not I was afraid of death. I've responded, and I honestly believe with all my heart, that while I would be afraid of the pain, I do not fear death in the least bit. I like you, KNOW where I'm going after I "go the way of all the earth." It doesn't scare me. I look forward to the resurrection and receiving a perfect, muscular, handsome, all-powerful and all- knowing body. Doesn't that sound like fun? I'm not saying I want to go right now, because I'd still like to finish my mission, get married, have a family, do other things... but if the Lord called me right now, I'd have no fear.
Sorry I went and rambled. I think I get that from you dad. Haha. Speaking of "Mexican" grill out, if that's what you really want to do, I'll have to do some cooking. Latinos don't out-grill us Southerners, but they DO have some interesting flavoring techniques. I'll have to show you some day.
June 2nd
Wow.... Mom, a 16mm kidney stone? That‘s impressive! I'm so glad I drink lots of water. Some of the missionaries have had them too. One of them, said it was a living hell. The way he said it made me laugh, but I thought "YIKES!" It must be super painful.
I think it’s great that Jotty is going to Mexico for his mission! I WISH I had as much time to prepare as he does. Keep nudging him. I wished I had learned when I was younger that you know what you’re doing.
So, I'll tell you a quick story before I move onto answering Jotty’s email.
On our way here to email, we just experienced a small miracle. Yesterday, while waiting for the other missionaries to arrive so we could start a service project, we went around and talked to people. I was in front, and felt inspired to turn on an alleyway. It wasn't a strong impression, just a very small one. I talked with two men who, despite being rough-looking, were very kind and listened to what we had to say. We talked a little bit about the plan, and asked them if we could come back. They declined but accepted a card. When we gave them the Mormon.org card, one of them said he wanted to give it to his brother, who really liked studying about Jesus. The other one, Mark, continued to carry on the conversation. We talked about the supposed "end of
the world" and talked about how since we don't know when he's coming,we need to prepare ourselves. After a couple minutes, we invited them to check out the website themselves and then left. We just saw Mark today. He stopped us and thanked us for talking to him. He said that he's only seen missionaries on the streets, and was surprised that we went down an alleyway. He said it was God who sent us to talk to him.
Since yesterday, he's started reading the scriptures again, he's confessed to his employer that he was stealing drinks and promised that he would stop, and is looking for a rehab center to help him get off of meth. I was really happy. He's homeless, so we won't be able to teach him right now, but I know without a doubt that if he were to die today, he would accept the Gospel in the Spirit World. I love how the True Gospel causes a reaction within the people who are earnestly seeking it. This was definitely a testimony builder.
Yep, regarding the guidelines on feeding the missionaries…we've "raised the bar," on mission diligence. For me, the whole dinner thing is to make us utilize the best proselyting hours effectively. Spanish people seem to ALWAYS be late. Since they are
late, we start dinner late and end up proselyting late. Hence, all dinner appointments must be no more than an hour. No dinner appointments must continue past 6:00 pm
either. If the members are late, eat dinner quickly. If you don't get to eat, go out and work--you'll be blessed for your sacrifice. I'm actually happy though. It's a challenge to be more diligent and to sacrifice more. I'm excited to see what blessings come to the mission.
As for baptisms, we don't have any set right now, but that might change tonight. We're teaching to young adults named Hilario and Modesto. They both have good questions, and try to understand what we teach them. Elder Carrasco and I think they have a lot of potential.
Yes, I did see Elder David Jones at the temple. It was good to see him. He’s a bike Elder and has lost some weight and he has a great spirit about him even though he is still a little shy. We get to attend the temple every transfer, but only if we're in the valley.
I'm really enjoying the mission right now, and am trying to do my best. It's hard, but
it's always worth it.
June 9th
Mom, I like your comments about the "rescue" program. I think that that's what too many people think as well. A big problem that we have in Spanish work is that home teaching is always low. People just kinda expect things to happen, and aren't really proactive and anxiously engaged. Of course, not all Hispanics are like that. One thing that Jotty will learn is that the Mexican culture will make him work hard. He'll have a LOT of baptisms, but he'll have to work extra hard to keep them active. He's gonna have to be patient too, because they will rely on him and his companion to do things that aren't really in his stewardship.People will call him instead of their home teachers for blessings. They will rely on him for other things as well. He'll have to do a lot, so he'll need a LOT of patience.
In fact, Jotty will be in Dale Galinski’s mission. That makes things even better. I'm hoping that Dale will get to train Jotty. As for Mexico City, I hear that most of the
problems are at the border, in places like Tijuana, Juarez,Chihuahua, Mexicali, etc. Mexico City will be rough, but I don't think that Jotty will be in danger. You have to have faith that the Lord will protect him as long as he doesn't put himself in danger.
It's pretty sketchy out here too, but I don't worry. We've narrowly avoided several catastrophes simply because the Lord watches over his servants. Not that things can’t happen to missionaries, but remember that the Lord protects his servants.
Well, the work is going slowly but surely. We have two people set for baptism. One of them, Hilario, is really trying to find the truth. After we gave him a baptismal date, he tried to help his roommate to accept one too. We still need to work with Modesto (his roommate). He's a little more timid than Hilario. The next one is Grigorio. He just showed up to church one day. We talked to him and set him in the hallway. He'd talked with missionaries before, but couldn't get baptized because he had "too much work." Now he doesn't have any. A blessing in disguise. Hehehehehe
June 16th
Pictures will come, but I have to get an envelope first. I'm kinda at
a standstill for a moment. I'll try to email some pictures next week,
and then I'll send you the rest via snail mail.
Yeah, when I get home, a restaurant and a movie sounds great. I'd like to eat at an “In 'n' Out“, but since we don't have any down there how about Olive Garden?
Dad, that revelation experience you had was simple, yet sweet, wasn't it? I've had
the joy of experiencing revelation many times as a missionary. I
understand it a lot better. I'm really excited to apply the things
that I've learned out here when I get back home. We'll see what the Lord has for
me when I return.
I’m sorry that Sister Sitz is doing so badly. She sure has been through a lot. Tell her Hi for me. Would you also tell Francis and Sis Rankin Hi for me? I miss our home teaching families. We are actually assigned families to home teach out here. It's cool but it‘s hard to work it into our schedule sometimes.
June 23rd
Mom, thanks for the “extra words“. I knew narcissistic, but I didn't know copasetic nor dialectical. I think dialectical is the word for me. I do tend to look at things from a logical point of view. With God's logic of course. The devil has his own logic as well.
So, the area just experienced a miracle. We went from 0 set to 5 set in one week. Two of them are from Cuba. They know nothing about Christ, which makes me more convinced that communism is of the Devil. As we talked they paid a lot of attention,and at the end of the first lesson, we set them for baptism. They are awesome. They came to church and participated in discussions. I'm really excited for them. Cubans are very talkative and friendly people. They don't deserve the kind of lifestyle that is in Cuba. They are rationed food every week, and have no freedom of religion. Do people really want that to happen to this country? I don't want to get too political at the moment, but I fear that this country is headed in that direction.
I've been doing pretty good so far but there IS something that I could use though. If you happen to get the chance, would you be able to order two more ribbon cartridges for my typewriter? I'm on the last one now. Also, Mom, I wanted to thank you for teaching me how to clean. My companion and I have been doing the cleaning for us and the other two missionaries in our apartment. It's helped us maintain a more Spirit-filled atmosphere.
Te quiero mucho!
Elder Miles Parker
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Monday, April 18, 2011
March and April 2011
March 3, 2011
So, we had a miracle on Monday before transfers (that means that Elder
Vega is no longer with me- cryin’ shame…he was a really awesome missionary. My new companion, Elder Cunha, is awesome too).
Anyway, Elder Vega missed a turn while we were looking for a woman we hadn't seen in a while. I didn't say anything, so we continued on. We ran into a man who couldn't be happier to see us. He told us that he was homeless right now, but that he was working on getting a job so that he could settle down and take the lessons again. He bore his testimony on how he knew that the church and the Book of Mormon are true, and that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God. We helped him out,gave him some information and went on our way. Then a woman pulled us over and asked us to come over later. We had our appointment with her last night, and let me tell you, I have never seen anyone so prepared to do whatever they need to, in order to get in the temple to be sealed to her deceased husband. She misses him a lot, and is happy to know that there is a way for them to be together forever. Right after we finished talking to her, another woman asked us to help her out with something that is out of our jurisdiction so we set up an appointment with the Bishop to help her out. How cool is that? We ran into three people who really needed our help, and only because we missed a turn. I know that God had his hand in that.
Did you know that even the way we vote affects our exaltation? Bruce R McConkie said that being valiant in our testimony includes many of the small things that we SHOULD do, including the way we vote.
The mission is going well. Love you all very much!
March 10, 2011
So, here's a funny story. The woman who stopped us last week and wanted to take the lessons explained to us how her deceased husband was a member of our church, and she wants to learn about the church now. She was really touched by the concept of sealing and eternal marriage and said that she was willing to do whatever it takes to get sealed to him.She accepted baptism, but didn't accept a date just yet. So, last week she came to church. We thought it was gonna be awesome, but we were mistaken. It all started after the closing prayer of sacrament
meeting. One of the young ladies who bore her testimony was wearing a
pink skirt. She went up to her, grabbed her skirt, and said "that was
a nice little testimony, but if you want God to hear you, you'd better
dress yourself more modestly." I thought that was bad, but then in the hallway,she started to yell at me, because she didn't understand why the Hispanics and Americans were separated. I told her that it was because they don't understand each other’s language. She said that it didn't matter, they need to learn English. She's right, but that's not the way to talk about it. I seriously thought it was over, but then, she started to argue with the Gospel Principles teacher. She left after that, and told us to see her at three. When we came, she asked for a blessing. She did accept a baptismal date. She's really a good woman. She just has problems with judging others.
March 17, 2011
Yes,I did hear a lot about the tsunami, but I have not seen any pictures.
It is interesting that even though the destruction was overwhelming, there were still small miracles. I also heard that not one missionary was lost over there- that‘s remarkable. I think that the people will be humbled, and that missionary work will increase over there. Only time can tell.
I thought leaving the comfort zone was hard on stage, but I realized
that it is MUCH harder in missionary work. Explaining the law of
Chastity is the most uncomfortable. But if you do it with a positive
mind, focused on helping them understand, it's really not that bad.
Re: school. I haven't thought that much about it. Once you hit about
21 months out, president will start to have you sign up for classes.
Many missionaries here have gone to or are going to one of the BYU campuses. I think it’s a great school, but the South still needs help. I'm going to blossom where I was planted. Besides, if I go out West, I won't be able to take care of you and Dad as well as I could if I were in Auburn. I'm planning on going to EOCC first and get some basics out of the way.I'm still thinking about Vet medicine, but I might want to go over to something that uses the Spanish language too.
Story time: Someone punched me last week. We met at a member’s house
to get picked up by missionaries to go to dinner, and all of a sudden,
these two teenagers, drunk beyond recognition, came up to us and
started cussing at us. One of them pushed my companion and told us we were on "their turf". So we left. As we were walking, the member's daughter, Gaby,shouted for us to be careful. We all turned around, and saw the two kids running at us. They stopped at Elder Aguilar, and punched him in the nose. I went up to them both. One of them backed up cuz he was scared. I told the other one to never touch Elder Aguilar again. He got angry and swung and I moved a little so that he only got my neck. Before I could do anything, Gaby ran up and threw one of them to the ground and started kicking him. When the other one came up to her,she punched him in the face and kept on kicking. She told us to go on and get out, but we didn't want to leave her. But sure enough, she really did have the situation under control. She's a big girl, and she's gotten in several fights in the past. She flung them around like rag dolls…quite a funny sight. We're not sure if we'll run into them again, but I'm not worried. I've never gotten so close to hitting someone Mom. I've always been afraid of getting into a fight, but when he struck one of my fellow missionaries, I felt empowered. I had no fear to fight. I know that, if it was required, God would have given me the strength to take them on. But thankfully, Gaby came and saved the day. She did get hit in the lip, but everything was ok. A little blood, and no swelling. We gave her a big thanks afterwards.
Things are going good, and we are working hard. Elder Cunha is not a native Spanish speaker. He's from Brazil, so he speaks Portuguese. He sometimes has a hard time, because he sometimes mixes up words and rules. He still does very well. He does a lot better than he thinks he does actually. My companion and I decided to rededicate ourselves and work harder. We talked with a TON of other people. We just got new phones and texting now, so we should have a little more success in contacting people.
March 24, 2011
All is well with me. No crazy stories for you, no more attacks-Haha. But we did have a special occasion with the mission President. After he heard about the attack, he asked that our district meet him at 8:30 pm last Sunday. We had a small companionship study about persecution. One thing that I learned is that there is a difference between getting persecuted for RIGHTEOUSNESS sake (as it says in the Bible) and getting persecuted for CHRIST'S NAME'S SAKE(as it says in the Book of Mormon). Many people were persecuted for righteousness sake: Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Ghandi, Martin Luther, Abraham Lincoln...... but only certain circumstances allow us to be persecuted for Christ's name sake. Men like Joseph and Hyrum Smith, the Apostles, any missionary.... I can see why Paul rejoiced in his persecution. NO ONE has the privilege of being persecuted in His name's sake unless he is called by God to represent Him. It was a good study. We had ice cream afterwards to "celebrate" the occasion. Oh, President…what a funny guy.
We had another person set for baptism. His name is Lino. When we came by the first time, he was EXTREMELY drunk, but the next time he was sober. The Spirit was strong, and we invited him to be baptized and he accepted.We just found out that he will be moving to California soon so not sure where he will be baptized.
Oh Mother... always willing to help out with theater productions. I'm so impressed at how long you've been doing things like that. Even more impressive is how you keep doing it even with your carpal tunnel. Thanks for the extra money too. I've learned while I'm out here (and I should have learned it earlier) that I'm an impulse buyer. I had to work SO HARD not to spend all the money you gave me today. I think the problem is that when I shop and I'm hungry, I buy junk food that I can eat right then and there. I've lost some weight. I went from 280 in Ely, to 263 here.
I love you all so much, and miss you even more than you miss me. Be happy and take care!
March 31, 2011
Thanks for the pictures. I showed the picture of Amry at the beach to my companion and asked him to guess how old she was. He said 16. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. uh no.... she's 12. WHAT!!!! He didn't believe me.
I wouldn't worry too much. I know it's in the “Mother” job description, but I think it's also the right thing to do. I thank you for worrying about me, even when I told you not too. Thank you very much for never stopping to be a Mom either. You and Dad are the perfect example that a Parent is never released from that Sacred Calling.
It's hard to believe how much everyone at home has grown so far, ESPECIALLY Brice and Cian. I can't get over how muscular Brice is either. I am so proud of him being baptized and wish I could’ve been there.
I'm starting to snack more on fruit. I'm pretty sure that I've told you this already, but Mexicans like the chile with lime flavor. They have a powder to put on fruits and veggies that tastes like chile and lime. It's awesome. I really like it on oranges and watermelon (two things I didn't eat back home. Also,lime juice is a REALLY good salad dressing, fyi. I'm also trying hard to eat a meal, and then not snack afterwards. It's hard, but I'm doing it. Sometimes, I’d snack when I stay up doing other things, like cleaning a bike (which I actually enjoy doing. Hey, if you think it's weird, remember that I'm YOUR son).
We recently had a Spanish conference and I learned a lot. One of the things I've decided to do as a result from one of the trainings is tell people specifically in the street that we are going to ask them to MAKE CHANGES and to DO THINGS. We are not just going to "talk about the Gospel." We were promised that as we do this, we will find those who are interested faster. Anyway, it was an awesome experience, and I'm excited to see what else I can do to improve the work here.
As for new news, we set two more people for the 30th of April. Their names are Reina and Alicia. We found Reina talking to one of her friends on the street. We politely interrupted them, taught a small lesson, and set up a return appointment. When we had the first appointment, we found out that she lives with her aunt Alicia. Both are very sweet,little ol' ladies who love to listen to what we have to say. We've been able to be bold with them,and they feel and hear the truthfulness about it. They are both coming to conference this Saturday (which, by the way, I can't wait for). I'm excited to see how they react to the talks.
Not much else to report on. The heat is already beginning, so it won't be too long before it gets worse. In all honesty though, this heat is nothing to the Southeast heat. At least it's dry here. I don't think people here would be able to stand the humid heat in Alabama.
April 7, 2011
Things are going well. I really enjoyed the talk by Pres.Uchtdorf too. I wrote in my notes, “Am I living up to my privileges as a missionary?” I know that once I get back home, the mantle will be taken from me, and that I will no longer enjoy the ability to serve in the capacity of a missionary any longer. I need to enjoy it while I can, and work even harder.
Tell Grandpa that I'm excited that we are going to go see him after my mission. I'd love to go to Texas and use my Spanish. I'm glad that I have several brothers and ward members that speak it so that I can use it throughout my life. I definitely don't want to lose it.
I've saved some money to send the pants, but I don't have time to do it. I'm going to try to do it today or tomorrow, but no guarantees. I've been able to patch up my other pants. You'd be so proud of your son, doing such a great job on sewing his clothes up until they can't be used anymore. hahaha. It doesn't look terrible, but it's also not professional.
Well, I can't write too much more. We didn't get much time this week, but know that I love you all very much. Take care and be happy!
April 14, 2011
I had an experience this week about optimism. I've been working really hard my whole mission to be optimistic, and I've actually been doing really good. Being optimistic has helped me work on my patience and understanding as well. Anyway, every Sunday we have a sacrament meeting at night for those that couldn't make it in the morning for
whatever reason. It has it's pluses and minuses. So, we were with Hermano Jurado, (our ward mission leader) and we went by to see this man who said he wanted to go to church at night. We came by, and he wasn't there. We went by several other people too, and they either weren't there, or were "too busy." Instead of being negative and
giving up, I decided to be optimistic and continue to think of several people. I immediately thought of Jonathan Martinez, an investigator that we haven't seen in a while and who is a little timid. Instead of being negative and thinking "Oh, he won't come, even if he IS there", I asked Herman Jurado to go by his house. We knocked on the door, and he was watching the America vs Chivas soccer game. Mom, he stopped watching the game and came with us to church. I don't know if you know, but Soccer to Hispanics is as football is to Southerners. He came, and enjoyed it at church. As we took him, we talked with him, and got to know him a little better. I'm so glad you taught me to have a PMA.(positive mental attitude) Thanks for the advice Mom. It just helped us bring someone a little closer to Christ.
Well, gotta get going. As one of the elders that I know said, "Let's make like a guillotine and head off" Take care and be happy. I love you!
So, we had a miracle on Monday before transfers (that means that Elder
Vega is no longer with me- cryin’ shame…he was a really awesome missionary. My new companion, Elder Cunha, is awesome too).
Anyway, Elder Vega missed a turn while we were looking for a woman we hadn't seen in a while. I didn't say anything, so we continued on. We ran into a man who couldn't be happier to see us. He told us that he was homeless right now, but that he was working on getting a job so that he could settle down and take the lessons again. He bore his testimony on how he knew that the church and the Book of Mormon are true, and that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God. We helped him out,gave him some information and went on our way. Then a woman pulled us over and asked us to come over later. We had our appointment with her last night, and let me tell you, I have never seen anyone so prepared to do whatever they need to, in order to get in the temple to be sealed to her deceased husband. She misses him a lot, and is happy to know that there is a way for them to be together forever. Right after we finished talking to her, another woman asked us to help her out with something that is out of our jurisdiction so we set up an appointment with the Bishop to help her out. How cool is that? We ran into three people who really needed our help, and only because we missed a turn. I know that God had his hand in that.
Did you know that even the way we vote affects our exaltation? Bruce R McConkie said that being valiant in our testimony includes many of the small things that we SHOULD do, including the way we vote.
The mission is going well. Love you all very much!
March 10, 2011
So, here's a funny story. The woman who stopped us last week and wanted to take the lessons explained to us how her deceased husband was a member of our church, and she wants to learn about the church now. She was really touched by the concept of sealing and eternal marriage and said that she was willing to do whatever it takes to get sealed to him.She accepted baptism, but didn't accept a date just yet. So, last week she came to church. We thought it was gonna be awesome, but we were mistaken. It all started after the closing prayer of sacrament
meeting. One of the young ladies who bore her testimony was wearing a
pink skirt. She went up to her, grabbed her skirt, and said "that was
a nice little testimony, but if you want God to hear you, you'd better
dress yourself more modestly." I thought that was bad, but then in the hallway,she started to yell at me, because she didn't understand why the Hispanics and Americans were separated. I told her that it was because they don't understand each other’s language. She said that it didn't matter, they need to learn English. She's right, but that's not the way to talk about it. I seriously thought it was over, but then, she started to argue with the Gospel Principles teacher. She left after that, and told us to see her at three. When we came, she asked for a blessing. She did accept a baptismal date. She's really a good woman. She just has problems with judging others.
March 17, 2011
Yes,I did hear a lot about the tsunami, but I have not seen any pictures.
It is interesting that even though the destruction was overwhelming, there were still small miracles. I also heard that not one missionary was lost over there- that‘s remarkable. I think that the people will be humbled, and that missionary work will increase over there. Only time can tell.
I thought leaving the comfort zone was hard on stage, but I realized
that it is MUCH harder in missionary work. Explaining the law of
Chastity is the most uncomfortable. But if you do it with a positive
mind, focused on helping them understand, it's really not that bad.
Re: school. I haven't thought that much about it. Once you hit about
21 months out, president will start to have you sign up for classes.
Many missionaries here have gone to or are going to one of the BYU campuses. I think it’s a great school, but the South still needs help. I'm going to blossom where I was planted. Besides, if I go out West, I won't be able to take care of you and Dad as well as I could if I were in Auburn. I'm planning on going to EOCC first and get some basics out of the way.I'm still thinking about Vet medicine, but I might want to go over to something that uses the Spanish language too.
Story time: Someone punched me last week. We met at a member’s house
to get picked up by missionaries to go to dinner, and all of a sudden,
these two teenagers, drunk beyond recognition, came up to us and
started cussing at us. One of them pushed my companion and told us we were on "their turf". So we left. As we were walking, the member's daughter, Gaby,shouted for us to be careful. We all turned around, and saw the two kids running at us. They stopped at Elder Aguilar, and punched him in the nose. I went up to them both. One of them backed up cuz he was scared. I told the other one to never touch Elder Aguilar again. He got angry and swung and I moved a little so that he only got my neck. Before I could do anything, Gaby ran up and threw one of them to the ground and started kicking him. When the other one came up to her,she punched him in the face and kept on kicking. She told us to go on and get out, but we didn't want to leave her. But sure enough, she really did have the situation under control. She's a big girl, and she's gotten in several fights in the past. She flung them around like rag dolls…quite a funny sight. We're not sure if we'll run into them again, but I'm not worried. I've never gotten so close to hitting someone Mom. I've always been afraid of getting into a fight, but when he struck one of my fellow missionaries, I felt empowered. I had no fear to fight. I know that, if it was required, God would have given me the strength to take them on. But thankfully, Gaby came and saved the day. She did get hit in the lip, but everything was ok. A little blood, and no swelling. We gave her a big thanks afterwards.
Things are going good, and we are working hard. Elder Cunha is not a native Spanish speaker. He's from Brazil, so he speaks Portuguese. He sometimes has a hard time, because he sometimes mixes up words and rules. He still does very well. He does a lot better than he thinks he does actually. My companion and I decided to rededicate ourselves and work harder. We talked with a TON of other people. We just got new phones and texting now, so we should have a little more success in contacting people.
March 24, 2011
All is well with me. No crazy stories for you, no more attacks-Haha. But we did have a special occasion with the mission President. After he heard about the attack, he asked that our district meet him at 8:30 pm last Sunday. We had a small companionship study about persecution. One thing that I learned is that there is a difference between getting persecuted for RIGHTEOUSNESS sake (as it says in the Bible) and getting persecuted for CHRIST'S NAME'S SAKE(as it says in the Book of Mormon). Many people were persecuted for righteousness sake: Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Ghandi, Martin Luther, Abraham Lincoln...... but only certain circumstances allow us to be persecuted for Christ's name sake. Men like Joseph and Hyrum Smith, the Apostles, any missionary.... I can see why Paul rejoiced in his persecution. NO ONE has the privilege of being persecuted in His name's sake unless he is called by God to represent Him. It was a good study. We had ice cream afterwards to "celebrate" the occasion. Oh, President…what a funny guy.
We had another person set for baptism. His name is Lino. When we came by the first time, he was EXTREMELY drunk, but the next time he was sober. The Spirit was strong, and we invited him to be baptized and he accepted.We just found out that he will be moving to California soon so not sure where he will be baptized.
Oh Mother... always willing to help out with theater productions. I'm so impressed at how long you've been doing things like that. Even more impressive is how you keep doing it even with your carpal tunnel. Thanks for the extra money too. I've learned while I'm out here (and I should have learned it earlier) that I'm an impulse buyer. I had to work SO HARD not to spend all the money you gave me today. I think the problem is that when I shop and I'm hungry, I buy junk food that I can eat right then and there. I've lost some weight. I went from 280 in Ely, to 263 here.
I love you all so much, and miss you even more than you miss me. Be happy and take care!
March 31, 2011
Thanks for the pictures. I showed the picture of Amry at the beach to my companion and asked him to guess how old she was. He said 16. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. uh no.... she's 12. WHAT!!!! He didn't believe me.
I wouldn't worry too much. I know it's in the “Mother” job description, but I think it's also the right thing to do. I thank you for worrying about me, even when I told you not too. Thank you very much for never stopping to be a Mom either. You and Dad are the perfect example that a Parent is never released from that Sacred Calling.
It's hard to believe how much everyone at home has grown so far, ESPECIALLY Brice and Cian. I can't get over how muscular Brice is either. I am so proud of him being baptized and wish I could’ve been there.
I'm starting to snack more on fruit. I'm pretty sure that I've told you this already, but Mexicans like the chile with lime flavor. They have a powder to put on fruits and veggies that tastes like chile and lime. It's awesome. I really like it on oranges and watermelon (two things I didn't eat back home. Also,lime juice is a REALLY good salad dressing, fyi. I'm also trying hard to eat a meal, and then not snack afterwards. It's hard, but I'm doing it. Sometimes, I’d snack when I stay up doing other things, like cleaning a bike (which I actually enjoy doing. Hey, if you think it's weird, remember that I'm YOUR son).
We recently had a Spanish conference and I learned a lot. One of the things I've decided to do as a result from one of the trainings is tell people specifically in the street that we are going to ask them to MAKE CHANGES and to DO THINGS. We are not just going to "talk about the Gospel." We were promised that as we do this, we will find those who are interested faster. Anyway, it was an awesome experience, and I'm excited to see what else I can do to improve the work here.
As for new news, we set two more people for the 30th of April. Their names are Reina and Alicia. We found Reina talking to one of her friends on the street. We politely interrupted them, taught a small lesson, and set up a return appointment. When we had the first appointment, we found out that she lives with her aunt Alicia. Both are very sweet,little ol' ladies who love to listen to what we have to say. We've been able to be bold with them,and they feel and hear the truthfulness about it. They are both coming to conference this Saturday (which, by the way, I can't wait for). I'm excited to see how they react to the talks.
Not much else to report on. The heat is already beginning, so it won't be too long before it gets worse. In all honesty though, this heat is nothing to the Southeast heat. At least it's dry here. I don't think people here would be able to stand the humid heat in Alabama.
April 7, 2011
Things are going well. I really enjoyed the talk by Pres.Uchtdorf too. I wrote in my notes, “Am I living up to my privileges as a missionary?” I know that once I get back home, the mantle will be taken from me, and that I will no longer enjoy the ability to serve in the capacity of a missionary any longer. I need to enjoy it while I can, and work even harder.
Tell Grandpa that I'm excited that we are going to go see him after my mission. I'd love to go to Texas and use my Spanish. I'm glad that I have several brothers and ward members that speak it so that I can use it throughout my life. I definitely don't want to lose it.
I've saved some money to send the pants, but I don't have time to do it. I'm going to try to do it today or tomorrow, but no guarantees. I've been able to patch up my other pants. You'd be so proud of your son, doing such a great job on sewing his clothes up until they can't be used anymore. hahaha. It doesn't look terrible, but it's also not professional.
Well, I can't write too much more. We didn't get much time this week, but know that I love you all very much. Take care and be happy!
April 14, 2011
I had an experience this week about optimism. I've been working really hard my whole mission to be optimistic, and I've actually been doing really good. Being optimistic has helped me work on my patience and understanding as well. Anyway, every Sunday we have a sacrament meeting at night for those that couldn't make it in the morning for
whatever reason. It has it's pluses and minuses. So, we were with Hermano Jurado, (our ward mission leader) and we went by to see this man who said he wanted to go to church at night. We came by, and he wasn't there. We went by several other people too, and they either weren't there, or were "too busy." Instead of being negative and
giving up, I decided to be optimistic and continue to think of several people. I immediately thought of Jonathan Martinez, an investigator that we haven't seen in a while and who is a little timid. Instead of being negative and thinking "Oh, he won't come, even if he IS there", I asked Herman Jurado to go by his house. We knocked on the door, and he was watching the America vs Chivas soccer game. Mom, he stopped watching the game and came with us to church. I don't know if you know, but Soccer to Hispanics is as football is to Southerners. He came, and enjoyed it at church. As we took him, we talked with him, and got to know him a little better. I'm so glad you taught me to have a PMA.(positive mental attitude) Thanks for the advice Mom. It just helped us bring someone a little closer to Christ.
Well, gotta get going. As one of the elders that I know said, "Let's make like a guillotine and head off" Take care and be happy. I love you!
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Finally...blog update: December 2010 through February 2011
DECEMBER 2010 ELY, NEVADA
I found EGG NOG! I was able to buy a couple of jugs so I'm a happy camper.
Things were a little slow earlier. The Christmas rush was keeping people busy shopping on the weekends, cold weather keeping them inside, and basketball season is taking up almost all the time of our younger investigators. But, life goes on. If we work diligently, we'll be fine.
Spanish work out here in the Ely area is very scarce. I do get to use my Spanish still though, because my companion, Elder Reyes, speaks Spanish as well Elder Aguilar went back to Vegas. Elder Reyes and I were in the same district working in my first area in the Paraiso ward. It's awesome that we're now companions. We enjoy reminiscing about memories in the Paradise stake and have had quite a few laughs.
It's getting a little colder too. We wanted to build a snowman and take a picture with it so that we could make a Christmas card out of it, but there's no snow right now. We COULD bike here, except for the fact that it's so cold. Well, in all reality, I'm more worried about the ice instead. I'm pretty sure bike riding on ice is a little frictionless.
I am so sorry to hear about Mia William’s death. Please give her family my condolences, and tell them that I will pray for them. I'm so happy that we have a perfect plan from our Heavenly Father. While losing a loved one causes us to grieve so, aren't you glad that we know what really happens? Aren't you glad to know that our family is eternal? I love sharing that message with others. That's why I'm out here. I wish I had understood things as well before the mission as I do now. I know I will not fear death as I get older because of the understanding that I have now of Heavenly father‘s plan for us. I'm not saying that the thought of death wouldn't bother me; there are things that I'd like to do (having a family is on the top o' the list), but I do not fear life after death. I don't say that to boast. I say that to assure you and others as well that I KNOW death isn't the end, that Jesus Christ has made a way for us to live after death, and that through His power, our families can be sealed for time and all eternity. Death is not the end, it is the beginning. Please tell her family that I KNOW with every fiber of my being that they can see her again.
Anyways, things have been picking up the pace now that the Holidays are over. I think that if I had planned better, it would have been more effective. Just FYI, I got in an accident. We are fine and the other car received no damage. We were driving UNDER the speed limit when we hit a patch of black ice. I started breaking at 100 feet going 20 to 25 mph and we still rear-ended an SUV. They had a solid steel bumper and trailer hitch that caused $4,094.35 worth of damage to us. When I called the mission office no one was mad. The accident was pretty much unpreventable even though I was driving cautiously. I was driving slow and started breaking at the right distance. I still feel badly about it.
Christmas on your end sounds like it was great. After my phone call home, Elder Reyes and I went to the convention center to help out with a community Christmas Dinner. We served and helped clean up. Then we went to make a couple of calls, and went to our dinner appointment and afterwards went to deliver some DVDs to a member. That was Christmas for us. I enjoyed the gifts you sent me. I've already used some of the “ Hot Hands”, it's pretty cold right now.
Tell everyone that I said Merry Christmas and that I love them lots.
con mucho amor
Elder Parker
JANUARY 2011 1st through 20th
It's hard to believe that I've been out 14 months already, but it's even harder to believe Dad, that you've been in the stake presidency for 8 years already. I'm glad to know that you enjoy your calling. It disappoints me to hear someone say "Oh I can't wait ‘til I get released". Are they really miserable in their calling? Even though missionary work is hard, and I'll be excited when it is time to come home, I will TERRIBLY miss the service and opportunities that I have as a missionary. This is the only time in my life that I get to enjoy the power of this calling and it will be a very bittersweet moment when I'm released. So, I’m happy to know that you enjoy your calling, despite how hard it is. Thanks for being a great example.
Shelby's getting married in February, Kim in May and Amber and Russell are expecting. Tell them congrats. It's so weird how people I grew up with in youth are starting to get married. I’m starting to feel a little old. Growing up is scary.
Regarding my driver’s license renewal: Apparently, I'm not considered a resident of Nevada, so I can't get a NV license. We're doing some more research because other missionaries have gotten a NV license. We'll get this sorted out but I wish Alabama would‘ve considered a mission like they do the military and college and let me renew. I don't know why it's such a big deal.
Dad, I’m sorry that your brother David passed away. I'm glad that you were able to go to Texas for the funeral and see Grandpa, Aunt Donna and the rest of the family. I sure appreciate Grandpa giving me one of David’s knives. Keep it safe will ya? I really miss having a knife on me. It's against mission rules to have one, but I can see why because some missionaries do NOT get along. Why tempt them by letting them have a knife?
I loved the pictures of family you took out there. You’re right, Dad and Mary do not look 80. A return trip to Texas when I am back sounds awesome. I'd love to see Grandpa Parker and Mary again. I can't believe that it's been that long since we made that trip for Paulette’s wedding. That means that I had just been made a deacon and had just ended my first year of baseball.
Yep, we still have plenty of snow. It barely gets above freezing even in broad daylight. Yesterday was pretty warm though..... 40 degrees. Honestly, I wasn't expecting this when I learned I was going to the Las Vegas mission.
It seems to me that your stake conference was awesome. I've really come to enjoy meetings and conferences more.... especially General Conference. Remember how I would always fall asleep? Not anymore. Not to say I don't get tired, but I try my hardest to stay awake so that I can get more out of it.
Love you all!
con mucho amor
Elder Parker
JANUARY 2011 (3rd & 4th week )LAS VEGAS
I'm back in Vegas now, so there's no more walking. I'm on bike, which is great. As comfortable as a car is, I enjoy biking and the exercise that comes with it. My new companion is Elder Vega. He's only been out two months, but he's seems to have gotten the hang of things already. He's very easy to get along with, and we have quite a few things in common. He's very diligent and obedient too. I'm very blessed to have had nothing but awesome and kind companions throughout my mission. I'm hoping it's stays that way. Things are picking up. We have a baptism planned this Saturday, and another one for the 13th of February. We are also teaching several other investigators that are on their way.
I want to say thank you for being diligent in emailing me. You have no idea how much it means to me to have the unconditional support you guys give me. Thanks of keeping me updated with the things back home too. I'm proud of your work ethic too. You still give it your all when you work. That's always stuck with me. I hope I can be HALF the worker that you are.
Take care and be happy! I love you very much and hope all goes well with you.
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
FEBRUARY 2011
Regarding our investigator I told you about: Elder Vega and I were discussing it, and we think she HAS felt the Spirit but hasn't recognized it, or won't admit it. We have an appointment with her today. We left her with the assignment to read from the beginning of the Book of Mormon. She lives with a member family, so she has some help with that. We'll keep trying.
So, I finally had menudo. You know, the soup with cow stomach? yeah........... the flavor was actually good..... I just couldn't handle the texture or the heinous smell.
We ran into a man yesterday who turned out to be a pastor. To put make a long story short, he went on quite a rant about how we were preaching a false doctrine, and how the water in John 3:5 refers to actual birth and not water baptism. He then claimed that baptism isn't a requisite for salvation. I asked him why Jesus was baptized then. He said to fulfill all righteousness. Then I asked, "Doesn't that mean that it's a commandment?" He then said yes. I don't think he caught that he just contradicted himself because he kept on ranting and showing me different scriptures. I just stayed quiet. He looked at me and said "I just blew your mind didn't I?"
I replied, "eh..... Not so much, no."
Then he kept going on and said that he could prove it to me and yadda, yadda, yadda.
I finally told him "Sir, you are just a man. You can NOT convince me what you say is true. Only the Holy Ghost can."
He kept going and I just stayed quiet. I did what I was supposed to do..... I testified and avoided contention. As we rode away, I thought to myself "Well, that's someone I am not
responsible for."
To respond to your question on what your friend ought to read, I would suggest Alma 36. In this chapter, Alma is telling his son Helaman about his conversion experience. He describes his anguish for his sins, and then describes his joy at his forgiveness. Even though they have sinned, they can't have been as bad as Alma the Younger. He lead people astray, and deliberately tried to destroy the church. I think that's the best thing for them to read. Don't give up on them, just keep up the support. I've seen those with addictions out here, and the best thing to do is to just support them and tell them that they CAN BE FORGIVEN!!!! It's true. I KNOW that it does heal the broken and wounded soul. Don’t let anyone feel that they are beyond the reach of the Atoning power of Christ.
Also, I’ve heard that if they can attend the addiction classes they will get extra help since the classes focus on the Atonement of Christ and teaches them how they can apply it.
Sister Mozzo’s death was a shock…give them my condolences will you?
Love you lots and am inspired by your hard work and example. I mean it. I really do.
Take care and be happy!
I found EGG NOG! I was able to buy a couple of jugs so I'm a happy camper.
Things were a little slow earlier. The Christmas rush was keeping people busy shopping on the weekends, cold weather keeping them inside, and basketball season is taking up almost all the time of our younger investigators. But, life goes on. If we work diligently, we'll be fine.
Spanish work out here in the Ely area is very scarce. I do get to use my Spanish still though, because my companion, Elder Reyes, speaks Spanish as well Elder Aguilar went back to Vegas. Elder Reyes and I were in the same district working in my first area in the Paraiso ward. It's awesome that we're now companions. We enjoy reminiscing about memories in the Paradise stake and have had quite a few laughs.
It's getting a little colder too. We wanted to build a snowman and take a picture with it so that we could make a Christmas card out of it, but there's no snow right now. We COULD bike here, except for the fact that it's so cold. Well, in all reality, I'm more worried about the ice instead. I'm pretty sure bike riding on ice is a little frictionless.
I am so sorry to hear about Mia William’s death. Please give her family my condolences, and tell them that I will pray for them. I'm so happy that we have a perfect plan from our Heavenly Father. While losing a loved one causes us to grieve so, aren't you glad that we know what really happens? Aren't you glad to know that our family is eternal? I love sharing that message with others. That's why I'm out here. I wish I had understood things as well before the mission as I do now. I know I will not fear death as I get older because of the understanding that I have now of Heavenly father‘s plan for us. I'm not saying that the thought of death wouldn't bother me; there are things that I'd like to do (having a family is on the top o' the list), but I do not fear life after death. I don't say that to boast. I say that to assure you and others as well that I KNOW death isn't the end, that Jesus Christ has made a way for us to live after death, and that through His power, our families can be sealed for time and all eternity. Death is not the end, it is the beginning. Please tell her family that I KNOW with every fiber of my being that they can see her again.
Anyways, things have been picking up the pace now that the Holidays are over. I think that if I had planned better, it would have been more effective. Just FYI, I got in an accident. We are fine and the other car received no damage. We were driving UNDER the speed limit when we hit a patch of black ice. I started breaking at 100 feet going 20 to 25 mph and we still rear-ended an SUV. They had a solid steel bumper and trailer hitch that caused $4,094.35 worth of damage to us. When I called the mission office no one was mad. The accident was pretty much unpreventable even though I was driving cautiously. I was driving slow and started breaking at the right distance. I still feel badly about it.
Christmas on your end sounds like it was great. After my phone call home, Elder Reyes and I went to the convention center to help out with a community Christmas Dinner. We served and helped clean up. Then we went to make a couple of calls, and went to our dinner appointment and afterwards went to deliver some DVDs to a member. That was Christmas for us. I enjoyed the gifts you sent me. I've already used some of the “ Hot Hands”, it's pretty cold right now.
Tell everyone that I said Merry Christmas and that I love them lots.
con mucho amor
Elder Parker
JANUARY 2011 1st through 20th
It's hard to believe that I've been out 14 months already, but it's even harder to believe Dad, that you've been in the stake presidency for 8 years already. I'm glad to know that you enjoy your calling. It disappoints me to hear someone say "Oh I can't wait ‘til I get released". Are they really miserable in their calling? Even though missionary work is hard, and I'll be excited when it is time to come home, I will TERRIBLY miss the service and opportunities that I have as a missionary. This is the only time in my life that I get to enjoy the power of this calling and it will be a very bittersweet moment when I'm released. So, I’m happy to know that you enjoy your calling, despite how hard it is. Thanks for being a great example.
Shelby's getting married in February, Kim in May and Amber and Russell are expecting. Tell them congrats. It's so weird how people I grew up with in youth are starting to get married. I’m starting to feel a little old. Growing up is scary.
Regarding my driver’s license renewal: Apparently, I'm not considered a resident of Nevada, so I can't get a NV license. We're doing some more research because other missionaries have gotten a NV license. We'll get this sorted out but I wish Alabama would‘ve considered a mission like they do the military and college and let me renew. I don't know why it's such a big deal.
Dad, I’m sorry that your brother David passed away. I'm glad that you were able to go to Texas for the funeral and see Grandpa, Aunt Donna and the rest of the family. I sure appreciate Grandpa giving me one of David’s knives. Keep it safe will ya? I really miss having a knife on me. It's against mission rules to have one, but I can see why because some missionaries do NOT get along. Why tempt them by letting them have a knife?
I loved the pictures of family you took out there. You’re right, Dad and Mary do not look 80. A return trip to Texas when I am back sounds awesome. I'd love to see Grandpa Parker and Mary again. I can't believe that it's been that long since we made that trip for Paulette’s wedding. That means that I had just been made a deacon and had just ended my first year of baseball.
Yep, we still have plenty of snow. It barely gets above freezing even in broad daylight. Yesterday was pretty warm though..... 40 degrees. Honestly, I wasn't expecting this when I learned I was going to the Las Vegas mission.
It seems to me that your stake conference was awesome. I've really come to enjoy meetings and conferences more.... especially General Conference. Remember how I would always fall asleep? Not anymore. Not to say I don't get tired, but I try my hardest to stay awake so that I can get more out of it.
Love you all!
con mucho amor
Elder Parker
JANUARY 2011 (3rd & 4th week )LAS VEGAS
I'm back in Vegas now, so there's no more walking. I'm on bike, which is great. As comfortable as a car is, I enjoy biking and the exercise that comes with it. My new companion is Elder Vega. He's only been out two months, but he's seems to have gotten the hang of things already. He's very easy to get along with, and we have quite a few things in common. He's very diligent and obedient too. I'm very blessed to have had nothing but awesome and kind companions throughout my mission. I'm hoping it's stays that way. Things are picking up. We have a baptism planned this Saturday, and another one for the 13th of February. We are also teaching several other investigators that are on their way.
I want to say thank you for being diligent in emailing me. You have no idea how much it means to me to have the unconditional support you guys give me. Thanks of keeping me updated with the things back home too. I'm proud of your work ethic too. You still give it your all when you work. That's always stuck with me. I hope I can be HALF the worker that you are.
Take care and be happy! I love you very much and hope all goes well with you.
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
FEBRUARY 2011
Regarding our investigator I told you about: Elder Vega and I were discussing it, and we think she HAS felt the Spirit but hasn't recognized it, or won't admit it. We have an appointment with her today. We left her with the assignment to read from the beginning of the Book of Mormon. She lives with a member family, so she has some help with that. We'll keep trying.
So, I finally had menudo. You know, the soup with cow stomach? yeah........... the flavor was actually good..... I just couldn't handle the texture or the heinous smell.
We ran into a man yesterday who turned out to be a pastor. To put make a long story short, he went on quite a rant about how we were preaching a false doctrine, and how the water in John 3:5 refers to actual birth and not water baptism. He then claimed that baptism isn't a requisite for salvation. I asked him why Jesus was baptized then. He said to fulfill all righteousness. Then I asked, "Doesn't that mean that it's a commandment?" He then said yes. I don't think he caught that he just contradicted himself because he kept on ranting and showing me different scriptures. I just stayed quiet. He looked at me and said "I just blew your mind didn't I?"
I replied, "eh..... Not so much, no."
Then he kept going on and said that he could prove it to me and yadda, yadda, yadda.
I finally told him "Sir, you are just a man. You can NOT convince me what you say is true. Only the Holy Ghost can."
He kept going and I just stayed quiet. I did what I was supposed to do..... I testified and avoided contention. As we rode away, I thought to myself "Well, that's someone I am not
responsible for."
To respond to your question on what your friend ought to read, I would suggest Alma 36. In this chapter, Alma is telling his son Helaman about his conversion experience. He describes his anguish for his sins, and then describes his joy at his forgiveness. Even though they have sinned, they can't have been as bad as Alma the Younger. He lead people astray, and deliberately tried to destroy the church. I think that's the best thing for them to read. Don't give up on them, just keep up the support. I've seen those with addictions out here, and the best thing to do is to just support them and tell them that they CAN BE FORGIVEN!!!! It's true. I KNOW that it does heal the broken and wounded soul. Don’t let anyone feel that they are beyond the reach of the Atoning power of Christ.
Also, I’ve heard that if they can attend the addiction classes they will get extra help since the classes focus on the Atonement of Christ and teaches them how they can apply it.
Sister Mozzo’s death was a shock…give them my condolences will you?
Love you lots and am inspired by your hard work and example. I mean it. I really do.
Take care and be happy!
Friday, November 12, 2010
Timely update (surprise!)
Mission date: 10 November
We aren't riding bikes much because we cover an entire stake. Two of the units are about an hour away. I am exercising in the morning though and have lost a little weight too. I think it's because I'm eating bigger breakfasts and smaller lunches. That, and I'm not snacking as much either.
My companion, Elder Aguilar is from Mesa Arizona. He's hilarious and a great missionary. I enjoy serving with him. There aren't too many Hispanics up here so we are working in English too, but my companion and I talk to each other in Spanish.
There is no WalMart or KMart for hours. We go to a local market called Ridley's. It’s WAY expensive, but I don't worry. The members here feed us well and they give us a lot of food to take home and cook too. Most of it is hunted animals: elk, antelope, mule deer, etc. Good stuff. Right now we don't have any set-in-stone plans for Thanksgiving, but we have NUMEROUS invitations to dine with other people that day.
Missionary business is going good as usual. I think it's getting better because I'm deciding to be more positive. Things are slow, but we still work hard. We've got a couple of people set for baptism, and one of my old investigators in my last area got baptized. I called her the night of to see how she was doing. She's way happy! Also, she and another baptism that I had about 4 weeks ago are both going out to help the missionaries and to bear their own testimonies. It's interesting how a missionary’s joy increases as a convert takes steps. He's happy when they’re baptized, but it gets better when they get the priesthood. It gets even better when you hear them bear their testimony to others. It gets even BETTER when they go to the temple to be sealed and/or receive their endowments. As they go throughout life, the joy continues to grow. I love it, and hope that I will be able to see some of my converts go to the temple. That'd be amazing.
I don't have too much time left, but I want to share a spiritual thought with you that I've shared several times at dinner appointments. In Mosiah 2, the last verse teaches us that those who keep the commandments are blessed both temporally and spiritually. They are happy. Before the mission, I used to obey in order to avoid the consequences. Is that bad? No. But there could be a better reason for obedience. As I have served, I learned about the law of blessings, and started to obey because I wanted the blessings. That's a much better reason than just trying to avoid punishment, but there is still a better reason. The best reason to obey is because we love the Lord. We want him to bless us so that we can use those blessing to bless the lives of his other children. We want to assist him in His work. When we have this mindset, THEN we can be happy. THEN we can be able to return to live with him. I kind of wished that I had learned this before, but thankfully I know it now.
I love you very much, and hope that all goes well with you. I know that if you all are doing what you need to be doing, the Lord WILL bless you. Its a promise, and you know that he can't break his promises. Take care and be happy!
We aren't riding bikes much because we cover an entire stake. Two of the units are about an hour away. I am exercising in the morning though and have lost a little weight too. I think it's because I'm eating bigger breakfasts and smaller lunches. That, and I'm not snacking as much either.
My companion, Elder Aguilar is from Mesa Arizona. He's hilarious and a great missionary. I enjoy serving with him. There aren't too many Hispanics up here so we are working in English too, but my companion and I talk to each other in Spanish.
There is no WalMart or KMart for hours. We go to a local market called Ridley's. It’s WAY expensive, but I don't worry. The members here feed us well and they give us a lot of food to take home and cook too. Most of it is hunted animals: elk, antelope, mule deer, etc. Good stuff. Right now we don't have any set-in-stone plans for Thanksgiving, but we have NUMEROUS invitations to dine with other people that day.
Missionary business is going good as usual. I think it's getting better because I'm deciding to be more positive. Things are slow, but we still work hard. We've got a couple of people set for baptism, and one of my old investigators in my last area got baptized. I called her the night of to see how she was doing. She's way happy! Also, she and another baptism that I had about 4 weeks ago are both going out to help the missionaries and to bear their own testimonies. It's interesting how a missionary’s joy increases as a convert takes steps. He's happy when they’re baptized, but it gets better when they get the priesthood. It gets even better when you hear them bear their testimony to others. It gets even BETTER when they go to the temple to be sealed and/or receive their endowments. As they go throughout life, the joy continues to grow. I love it, and hope that I will be able to see some of my converts go to the temple. That'd be amazing.
I don't have too much time left, but I want to share a spiritual thought with you that I've shared several times at dinner appointments. In Mosiah 2, the last verse teaches us that those who keep the commandments are blessed both temporally and spiritually. They are happy. Before the mission, I used to obey in order to avoid the consequences. Is that bad? No. But there could be a better reason for obedience. As I have served, I learned about the law of blessings, and started to obey because I wanted the blessings. That's a much better reason than just trying to avoid punishment, but there is still a better reason. The best reason to obey is because we love the Lord. We want him to bless us so that we can use those blessing to bless the lives of his other children. We want to assist him in His work. When we have this mindset, THEN we can be happy. THEN we can be able to return to live with him. I kind of wished that I had learned this before, but thankfully I know it now.
I love you very much, and hope that all goes well with you. I know that if you all are doing what you need to be doing, the Lord WILL bless you. Its a promise, and you know that he can't break his promises. Take care and be happy!
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Newsflash: "Mormonator" has been sighted in Ely, Nevada
My apologies to those who actually keep up with this blog...lots of things on my plate in addition to procrastination.-Jan
Mission date: 9 September
Mission business is busy. My companion and I have had two baptisms (one was Yolanda) in the last three weeks. We've got 3 more planned this Saturday. And another companionship has one. I'm way psyched!
We are teaching a man who wants to get rid of his alcoholism. He has other addictions too, but that's the only one he mentioned.
Anyway, the poor guy was tied up by his brothers and father and they beat him up something awful. They took a glass beer bottle and banged it over his head. I didn't see him because he called me, and told me what happened. His friend told me that his face was pretty cut up. I felt so bad for him. Even though he probably brought it on himself, no one deserves to be treated like that, especially from family.
I've been working on bikes for a while and I figured out how to work some things out. There's still a lot for me to learn, but I think I could actually get into biking when I get back home. It's great exercise, and a TON of fun.
I've been reading Jesus the Christ recently by James E. Talmadge. If you haven't read that yet, you should. I've gained a lot of insight on how Christ handled different situations and how the nature of God is. Because missionaries are literally representatives of Him, I've been thinking about how I can change and be more like Him. It’s an excellent book.
There most definitely is a Gospel principle in your story about the pool losing so much water from that very small hole. This is what I see:
Let's say we have a problem that has started small yet caused HUGE losses. Because it seems like a small problem, we think that we are able to handle it ourselves. After one or two tries we realize we can't do it, so we have two choices: go seek help from professionals, or continue in our own efforts, thereby letting the problem get bigger and allowing more losses to happen. Here's the application. Let's take a problem like pornography. The problem seems small… “It’s only photos”. Then after a while we see how much of a loss of the Spirit one has suffered. After trying one or two times to fix the problem by oneself, there is the realization that it has not been successful. There are now two choices: seek priesthood leadership help, or continue in one’s own efforts to stop, even though there is a realization that there probably still won’t be success which means there would be even more of a loss of the Spirit. Either way, one continues to lose the Spirit, or suffers more loss of the Spirit compared to if we initially went to priesthood leadership. This is what I see, but I'm 100% sure (another way of saying "I know") that there are other gospel principles that can be learned from this.
We took Luis Lopez to the temple grounds for a lesson (he's one of the 4 getting baptized this Saturday). Quite a spiritual experience. He said that he could immediately feel the difference of peace of the temple and the discord of the world. He opened up a lot to us, and asked us some profound questions. "How can I feel the love of God, and how can I share that with others?" Wow.... what a question. It made me think of what made me feel the love of God. I immediately told him about the Family Reunion Testimony Meeting we had last summer. I remember that even though the week was full of fun activities and cool things to do, when we sat down and listened to each member of the family talk of the blessing they've received from the Gospel, I really felt the love of God at that time. The family that was in that room was a happy family, founded on the Eternal Gospel of Jesus Christ, nurtured by the hope that we will be a family forever. As I related the experience, we also told him that once he feels that love, he can share it with others by being a kind person, setting an example, teaching those who need council, etc. After words, he told us how it's been hard to not have smoked for a while (he's giving up smoking). He's been succeeding, to which he says, "It's hard man. Like, I don't want to do it." Then he started talking about something else. Most people want to give up one bad habit at a time. "Oh, I think I want to give up smoking right now. That will be good." Luis specifically said that he want's to stop sinning. Period. I've never heard anyone express that desire before. He says he hates how he feel when he sins, and then he wonders why he does it again. My companion shared the scripture in Nephi when Nephi exclaims "Oh wretched man that I am!" Luis is a great man, and he'll make an even greater member of the church. We've been working with him for a long time, but now the fruits of our labors have come forth.
Mission date:16 September
Thanks for the happy birthday. I feel old now - but I know that I've still got plenty of time left. I wish I could respond to all those who have written me. I honestly just don't have time to write back all the time. By the time I finish all the letters, others letters arrive and I don't get to respond to them. I want to, trust me, I just can't fit it all in. I will keep trying though.
The temperature is going down though... low 90s now. It feels even better in the morning too.
Elder Meiners and I are staying in the area again for 6 more weeks. We've got some more baptisms lined up and I'm way excited. The Los Feliz ward is blowing up now. I am getting a little worn out though in the area. Everyone is too busy now that school is in session and we don’t get many street contacts.
We didn’t have 4 baptisms last Saturday but we did have two. One of our investigators FINALLY got her warrant situated. She received no punishment at all. She told her public defense attorney that she did NOT want to take the easy way out. She told him that she simply wanted to make up for what she did. The judge told her she could go-with no punishment, but he made it absolutely clear that if she did anything else, she’d be spending time in jail before she knew it. Quite a miracle if I say so myself. She's now set for the 9th of October. We're really excited for her. She's been being taught ever since I arrived.
I am close to “The Strip” and have driven right by it (the I15 goes right past). It's hard to imagine how much wickedness goes on there though. That's why we're here - there are PLENTY of good people here waiting to be taught the Gospel.
*(on-going "Zombie" dialogue w/ Jim) Keep being awesome and don't worry about any tanks. I stashed a box of pipe bombs in the attic. All you have to do is press the button on top and the tank will go for it. Make sure you clear the neighborhood though... it's radius is pretty big. I tested it out here and I took out half of the Strip.
Mission date: 23 September
Being 20 is crazy. I'm technically an adult now, no longer a teenager. I can't go back. I've past the point of no return now.
We've been focusing on the Doctrine of Christ recently. Read 2 Nephi 31and pay attention to the last verse. It says that there is "no other way." This is His doctrine. He is the only way. If we can remember this, we won't have fear when inviting our friends to listen to the missionaries.
Yes, the Carlitos in the picture is the one and the same. Our area was split and we were given the area that he was not in but he did ask me to baptize him and I was honored to do so.
I learned something very important just today before arriving at the email place.
I was in bathroom for a couple minutes when my companion left the apartment. When I came out, I noticed the whole apartment was dark. I shouted his name, but no answer. I got really worried. I went outside and tried to look for him. I called the other elders that live in our apartment complex to see if they had seen him. They found him going past a trailer park. They called me and we met up. I've been very patient on my mission, and have really improved on my temper, but when I saw him, I just lost it. I yelled at him and made him feel a little bad. I didn't call him names or anything, but I let him know that I was very angry. When we got back to the apartment, I apologized to him and told him that I loved him, and that that was why I was looking for him. He was very good about it, and he apologized for leaving. He thought that I had left him to go with the other elders to go shopping. I told him I would never leave him alone like that. I then instructed him on what to do should any of his companions ever go missing. The contention didn't even last 6 minutes, but I still felt that I could've handled the situation better. As I was pondering, I remembered something that my patriarchal blessing said to the effect, that when I am a father that I should be careful not to lash out at my children when upset but ask them about the situation, listen to them, and quietly help them see what other decision they could have made
This really sunk into me. While I'm only a Dad in a missionary sense, I still could've handled the situation just like that, like a real Dad. I hit me hard. I realized that the way I should correct and counsel my future children is how I should correct and counsel my companions, my fellow workers, my spouse, whoever it will be. It was quite an experience.
Mission date: 30 September
Things are going well in the mission. My companion and I are getting along perfectly fine. He's doing better in his Spanish and so am I. I'd go ahead and say that I'm fluent now, but I still can improve...my accent is a little shaky. I'm working on saying the words like an actual native- I speak with a Mexican accent.
The doctrine of Christ has excited missionaries so much that we have doubled the amount of investigators with a baptismal date. It's awesome, and if members can understand how important it is, they will be more willing to help. One thing more that I've learned is that if we let them know there is promised blessings for obedience to a commandment, they will be more willing to follow through and be obedient. I know that missionary work has given me a purpose in my life. For people who haven't served a mission, all they have to do is try it out and they can know the joy it brings to be a part of someone else’s salvation. If you have time, go with the missionaries. Mom and Dad, you both have such a strong testimony - put it to use. I know that you'll find happiness.
We have been teaching Luis and Arlene and they are still doing awesome. We also had a street contact with someone that had been trying to get in contact with the missionaries for some time. We found him because we happened to be in the right place at the right time. Little miracles are filling the mission. I've also started to find joy in the success and accomplishments of others. This is a great time to be in the mission right. We're all working hard to accomplish our vision of 1200 baptisms. W have over 800 so far. it's awesome to see how the Lord has been blessing us and the people we teach.
No worries mom; I ALWAYS wear my helmet (mi casco). It HAS saved my noggin more than once. Thanks for letting me know what happened with Grace. I'm super happy that she is fine now.
I'm sorry that emails are getting shorter. I'm trying to keep my computer time under an hour (which is what we should be doing). I'm out here working and I know that if I'm obedient, you all receive blessings. In fact, there have been some parents jokingly say, "President, can you keep my missionary for a couple more months?"
"Why?"
"Because we need more blessings."
Love you all very much!
Mission date: 7 October
Conference was awesome. I decided to prepare a question this time and sure enough, it was answered. I really enjoyed Pres. Monson's talk on the 3 R's of agency and Pres. Uchtdorf's talk on pride. Pres. Ballard's talk on addiction was awesome as well… I like how he likened it to fly fishing.
The field is still great. I’m still focusing on the work. It was hard at first to miss “certain” people. I don’t want anyone thinking I don’t care but I cannot allow myself to be distracted and then waste my time AND the Lord’s.
So here's an experience for ya. We went over to Zayra Beas's house (she's a convert whose husband left her because she joined) to give her a blessing. I think she said that she had a busted vein in her hip and that it hurt her a LOT. We gave her a blessing and she said that the pain immediately subsided. To think that she had THAT much faith that she was relieved as soon as we finished the blessing. She's still relieved of the pain as of today, so I'm quite touched.
Thanks for continuing to take care of me even though I'm far from home.
Mission date: 14 October
Things have been looking up in our district. We come to the close of another transfer. We'll be having two baptisms next Saturday. The other two companionships are planning two baptisms as well. If everything goes the way it should (and I have faith that it will), we'll have six baptisms next Saturday. That'd be WAY sweet. We only serve in one ward and there are six of us assigned to the ward. There are some car missionaries in the zone, the sisters and the zone leaders. We're still on bike. I'm starting to gain a little weight. I've got to maintain my good eating habits. I'm not eating unhealthily, I just need to not eat so much. It doesn't help that we have a Tongan in our apartment though.... He LOVES to eat. lol
Thank you for your prayers and faith Mom. I love you dearly, and hope that you have the physical and spiritual strength that you need to carry on. I love you very much. Take care and be happy!!!!!
Mission date: 21 October
We've been focusing a lot on receiving revelation during these past few months. Of all of the many things that I learned, one of the most important ones to me is how revelation isn't always a concourse of angels singing a glorious message from God. I think that too many times we tend to think of revelations as great and glorious, when in reality, that's hardly the case. One example: my companion and I both have prayed a few times to know if a certain investigator (with some serious problems) would be ready for baptism on this weekend, or the next. After a short prayer, we both sat and pondered. We both came up with the same answer, both times. It wasn't an earthquake or anything, just a still small voice. I explained to someone that revelation is when the Lord "reveals" heavenly knowledge, and there are many ways he can do that.
Hearing from you guys each week empowers me with new resolve to work harder for you. Jotty told me a little bit about all that you have had to do to the house. I'm so glad you taught me how to work. One of the members was really impressed with me when we helped him move gravel into his yard for landscaping (something I'm all too familiar with). He said that by the time he had smoothed out the rocks I dumped, I was already back with a new barrow-full of rocks. It's kinda funny to hear him talk about it.
We've got two baptisms this Saturday and transfers are also next week. I've been here in this particular area for 6 months so far, and president said I might be here for another transfer. We shall see what time has in store for me.
I'm already starting to lose a little bit of the weight that I recently gained. The tough part is doing low carbs - Mexicans eat a lot of carbs.
Be happy. Remember that even though times can get rough, Jesus Christ "has descended below them all." (D&C Section 122- my favorite section). Take care!!!!
(more “zombie” remarks to Jim)Don't worry about the Boomers Dad. They ended up being easy targets in the rain. It flooded a little bit out here, so they just floated like buoys. Easy kills.
Mission date: 28 October
Wow.....the pictures of the house looks great!!!
It's a lot colder up here in Ely, but I'm managing. It's dry, so I'm doing good. The people here are very nice…it reminds me of back home. Ely is 3 hours south of Elko, but 4 hours north of Vegas. It was snowing when we got here. We're about a mile above sea level here in Ely, so the elevation is a killer. I noticed that I get winded easier up here than I did in Vegas. My companion and I cover an entire stake here. We have certain days where we go to different towns…sometimes we're on the road for 45 minutes. One of these days we'll be traveling to a town that is 90 miles away to visit a less active member. There are no other elders here except for a senior couple who work on a ranch. All other missionaries live at least 3 hours away in all directions. We really should be grateful that in Enterprise we have two missionaries assigned to the ward. These people don't have that kind of blessing here. They love us though. The work is slower too.. The towns are small and not too many people but there are baptisms. We normally work off of member referrals. Actually, member referrals are one of the most effective ways to work, so that's why Elko zone is called the Promised Land of the Las Vegas Mission.
My companion, Elder Aguilar is a native speaker, but he speaks both. We're both excited to have a companion that speaks good Spanish. I'm still getting compliments on my Spanish. After studying Spanish for so long, and thinking about it, I might actually want to major in linguistics instead of vet medicine, but we'll see about that after I get back.
Luis got baptized last Saturday. He invited his family and his girlfriend and her family too.
Arlene has to wait until this Saturday. I won't be able to go down for the baptism, but I'm still very happy for her. She has an actual testimony, so I know that she's not converting for the missionaries.
There aren't too many Hispanics here, but we’re teaching a couple. We are hoping to organize a Spanish branch, but we'll see how that goes. Also, to let you know, we cover two Shoshone colonies and a Shoshone reservation. I thought you might find that interesting. Remind me again of my American Indian heritage? I know I've got blood from both you and Mom, but I'm not sure what and how much. People still can't figure out what ethnicity I am. I love it.
All in all, I like it a lot here. It's cold, it's quiet, it's friendly, and it's snowing. I just got called as district leader here. It was a surprise call too. Normally they call you a day or two in advance, before transfers, to tell you. I found out as soon as I got here. It's not a big district: me, my companion, and the senior couple. I still enjoy preparing trainings to help the couple out. They have questions on how to teach well, or how to handle certain situations. We'll be preparing training to help them from here on out.
(more Zombie talk)The zombies are a little more prominent here, but it's like back home here. Everyone hunts, so everyone has a gun and knows how to use it, so even though there are many infected here, no one worries. They even have Zombie Season out here. I've seen some pretty cool taxidermied ones. People aren't scared to bother them down here. They say that all the moping and crying they do scares away all the deer, so they take them out first. One guy even has a “tank” trophy in his garage-it's huge!
Mission date: 4 November
Things are good here mission-wise. We just had a mission wide conference call with the president. We talked about the mission goal of 1200 baptisms, and right now, we have 935. We are going to begin a fast on 6:00 this Saturday night, sacrifice something for the next 8 weeks, and go to work. It's going to be hard, but I know President Christensen is an inspired man, so this will work. I'm very excited right now.
Most of the missionary housing in this mission is with members, but not all. Right now we’re in a house that’s a spare house owned by a member.
Wow.... I've already been out a year. This time has gone by very fast. I'm kinda bummed … I don't have much more time left. Before you know it, I'll be home, 21 and a return missionary. I hope that I can do what I need to do in the time that I have left.
We have a bunch of people that are getting baptized. Most of the work we do involves members, and it's working. It goes to show that the people who are most likely to accept the Gospel are our friends.
Sorry about the knee Dad. I hope the new drugs will work. If not, just hold out until I get back and then you can retire. I'll go to work for you. I've learned how to effectively hunt zombies while out here in Ely, so maybe I can start a zombie extermination business down there. Of course, you can take part in it too if you'd like. I'd put you as lead producer of new anti-zombie weapons. In all seriousness though, I hope that when I get back and start working I can lift some burden off of you and mom.
Love you very much. Take care an be happy!
Con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Mission date: 9 September
Mission business is busy. My companion and I have had two baptisms (one was Yolanda) in the last three weeks. We've got 3 more planned this Saturday. And another companionship has one. I'm way psyched!
We are teaching a man who wants to get rid of his alcoholism. He has other addictions too, but that's the only one he mentioned.
Anyway, the poor guy was tied up by his brothers and father and they beat him up something awful. They took a glass beer bottle and banged it over his head. I didn't see him because he called me, and told me what happened. His friend told me that his face was pretty cut up. I felt so bad for him. Even though he probably brought it on himself, no one deserves to be treated like that, especially from family.
I've been working on bikes for a while and I figured out how to work some things out. There's still a lot for me to learn, but I think I could actually get into biking when I get back home. It's great exercise, and a TON of fun.
I've been reading Jesus the Christ recently by James E. Talmadge. If you haven't read that yet, you should. I've gained a lot of insight on how Christ handled different situations and how the nature of God is. Because missionaries are literally representatives of Him, I've been thinking about how I can change and be more like Him. It’s an excellent book.
There most definitely is a Gospel principle in your story about the pool losing so much water from that very small hole. This is what I see:
Let's say we have a problem that has started small yet caused HUGE losses. Because it seems like a small problem, we think that we are able to handle it ourselves. After one or two tries we realize we can't do it, so we have two choices: go seek help from professionals, or continue in our own efforts, thereby letting the problem get bigger and allowing more losses to happen. Here's the application. Let's take a problem like pornography. The problem seems small… “It’s only photos”. Then after a while we see how much of a loss of the Spirit one has suffered. After trying one or two times to fix the problem by oneself, there is the realization that it has not been successful. There are now two choices: seek priesthood leadership help, or continue in one’s own efforts to stop, even though there is a realization that there probably still won’t be success which means there would be even more of a loss of the Spirit. Either way, one continues to lose the Spirit, or suffers more loss of the Spirit compared to if we initially went to priesthood leadership. This is what I see, but I'm 100% sure (another way of saying "I know") that there are other gospel principles that can be learned from this.
We took Luis Lopez to the temple grounds for a lesson (he's one of the 4 getting baptized this Saturday). Quite a spiritual experience. He said that he could immediately feel the difference of peace of the temple and the discord of the world. He opened up a lot to us, and asked us some profound questions. "How can I feel the love of God, and how can I share that with others?" Wow.... what a question. It made me think of what made me feel the love of God. I immediately told him about the Family Reunion Testimony Meeting we had last summer. I remember that even though the week was full of fun activities and cool things to do, when we sat down and listened to each member of the family talk of the blessing they've received from the Gospel, I really felt the love of God at that time. The family that was in that room was a happy family, founded on the Eternal Gospel of Jesus Christ, nurtured by the hope that we will be a family forever. As I related the experience, we also told him that once he feels that love, he can share it with others by being a kind person, setting an example, teaching those who need council, etc. After words, he told us how it's been hard to not have smoked for a while (he's giving up smoking). He's been succeeding, to which he says, "It's hard man. Like, I don't want to do it." Then he started talking about something else. Most people want to give up one bad habit at a time. "Oh, I think I want to give up smoking right now. That will be good." Luis specifically said that he want's to stop sinning. Period. I've never heard anyone express that desire before. He says he hates how he feel when he sins, and then he wonders why he does it again. My companion shared the scripture in Nephi when Nephi exclaims "Oh wretched man that I am!" Luis is a great man, and he'll make an even greater member of the church. We've been working with him for a long time, but now the fruits of our labors have come forth.
Mission date:16 September
Thanks for the happy birthday. I feel old now - but I know that I've still got plenty of time left. I wish I could respond to all those who have written me. I honestly just don't have time to write back all the time. By the time I finish all the letters, others letters arrive and I don't get to respond to them. I want to, trust me, I just can't fit it all in. I will keep trying though.
The temperature is going down though... low 90s now. It feels even better in the morning too.
Elder Meiners and I are staying in the area again for 6 more weeks. We've got some more baptisms lined up and I'm way excited. The Los Feliz ward is blowing up now. I am getting a little worn out though in the area. Everyone is too busy now that school is in session and we don’t get many street contacts.
We didn’t have 4 baptisms last Saturday but we did have two. One of our investigators FINALLY got her warrant situated. She received no punishment at all. She told her public defense attorney that she did NOT want to take the easy way out. She told him that she simply wanted to make up for what she did. The judge told her she could go-with no punishment, but he made it absolutely clear that if she did anything else, she’d be spending time in jail before she knew it. Quite a miracle if I say so myself. She's now set for the 9th of October. We're really excited for her. She's been being taught ever since I arrived.
I am close to “The Strip” and have driven right by it (the I15 goes right past). It's hard to imagine how much wickedness goes on there though. That's why we're here - there are PLENTY of good people here waiting to be taught the Gospel.
*(on-going "Zombie" dialogue w/ Jim) Keep being awesome and don't worry about any tanks. I stashed a box of pipe bombs in the attic. All you have to do is press the button on top and the tank will go for it. Make sure you clear the neighborhood though... it's radius is pretty big. I tested it out here and I took out half of the Strip.
Mission date: 23 September
Being 20 is crazy. I'm technically an adult now, no longer a teenager. I can't go back. I've past the point of no return now.
We've been focusing on the Doctrine of Christ recently. Read 2 Nephi 31and pay attention to the last verse. It says that there is "no other way." This is His doctrine. He is the only way. If we can remember this, we won't have fear when inviting our friends to listen to the missionaries.
Yes, the Carlitos in the picture is the one and the same. Our area was split and we were given the area that he was not in but he did ask me to baptize him and I was honored to do so.
I learned something very important just today before arriving at the email place.
I was in bathroom for a couple minutes when my companion left the apartment. When I came out, I noticed the whole apartment was dark. I shouted his name, but no answer. I got really worried. I went outside and tried to look for him. I called the other elders that live in our apartment complex to see if they had seen him. They found him going past a trailer park. They called me and we met up. I've been very patient on my mission, and have really improved on my temper, but when I saw him, I just lost it. I yelled at him and made him feel a little bad. I didn't call him names or anything, but I let him know that I was very angry. When we got back to the apartment, I apologized to him and told him that I loved him, and that that was why I was looking for him. He was very good about it, and he apologized for leaving. He thought that I had left him to go with the other elders to go shopping. I told him I would never leave him alone like that. I then instructed him on what to do should any of his companions ever go missing. The contention didn't even last 6 minutes, but I still felt that I could've handled the situation better. As I was pondering, I remembered something that my patriarchal blessing said to the effect, that when I am a father that I should be careful not to lash out at my children when upset but ask them about the situation, listen to them, and quietly help them see what other decision they could have made
This really sunk into me. While I'm only a Dad in a missionary sense, I still could've handled the situation just like that, like a real Dad. I hit me hard. I realized that the way I should correct and counsel my future children is how I should correct and counsel my companions, my fellow workers, my spouse, whoever it will be. It was quite an experience.
Mission date: 30 September
Things are going well in the mission. My companion and I are getting along perfectly fine. He's doing better in his Spanish and so am I. I'd go ahead and say that I'm fluent now, but I still can improve...my accent is a little shaky. I'm working on saying the words like an actual native- I speak with a Mexican accent.
The doctrine of Christ has excited missionaries so much that we have doubled the amount of investigators with a baptismal date. It's awesome, and if members can understand how important it is, they will be more willing to help. One thing more that I've learned is that if we let them know there is promised blessings for obedience to a commandment, they will be more willing to follow through and be obedient. I know that missionary work has given me a purpose in my life. For people who haven't served a mission, all they have to do is try it out and they can know the joy it brings to be a part of someone else’s salvation. If you have time, go with the missionaries. Mom and Dad, you both have such a strong testimony - put it to use. I know that you'll find happiness.
We have been teaching Luis and Arlene and they are still doing awesome. We also had a street contact with someone that had been trying to get in contact with the missionaries for some time. We found him because we happened to be in the right place at the right time. Little miracles are filling the mission. I've also started to find joy in the success and accomplishments of others. This is a great time to be in the mission right. We're all working hard to accomplish our vision of 1200 baptisms. W have over 800 so far. it's awesome to see how the Lord has been blessing us and the people we teach.
No worries mom; I ALWAYS wear my helmet (mi casco). It HAS saved my noggin more than once. Thanks for letting me know what happened with Grace. I'm super happy that she is fine now.
I'm sorry that emails are getting shorter. I'm trying to keep my computer time under an hour (which is what we should be doing). I'm out here working and I know that if I'm obedient, you all receive blessings. In fact, there have been some parents jokingly say, "President, can you keep my missionary for a couple more months?"
"Why?"
"Because we need more blessings."
Love you all very much!
Mission date: 7 October
Conference was awesome. I decided to prepare a question this time and sure enough, it was answered. I really enjoyed Pres. Monson's talk on the 3 R's of agency and Pres. Uchtdorf's talk on pride. Pres. Ballard's talk on addiction was awesome as well… I like how he likened it to fly fishing.
The field is still great. I’m still focusing on the work. It was hard at first to miss “certain” people. I don’t want anyone thinking I don’t care but I cannot allow myself to be distracted and then waste my time AND the Lord’s.
So here's an experience for ya. We went over to Zayra Beas's house (she's a convert whose husband left her because she joined) to give her a blessing. I think she said that she had a busted vein in her hip and that it hurt her a LOT. We gave her a blessing and she said that the pain immediately subsided. To think that she had THAT much faith that she was relieved as soon as we finished the blessing. She's still relieved of the pain as of today, so I'm quite touched.
Thanks for continuing to take care of me even though I'm far from home.
Mission date: 14 October
Things have been looking up in our district. We come to the close of another transfer. We'll be having two baptisms next Saturday. The other two companionships are planning two baptisms as well. If everything goes the way it should (and I have faith that it will), we'll have six baptisms next Saturday. That'd be WAY sweet. We only serve in one ward and there are six of us assigned to the ward. There are some car missionaries in the zone, the sisters and the zone leaders. We're still on bike. I'm starting to gain a little weight. I've got to maintain my good eating habits. I'm not eating unhealthily, I just need to not eat so much. It doesn't help that we have a Tongan in our apartment though.... He LOVES to eat. lol
Thank you for your prayers and faith Mom. I love you dearly, and hope that you have the physical and spiritual strength that you need to carry on. I love you very much. Take care and be happy!!!!!
Mission date: 21 October
We've been focusing a lot on receiving revelation during these past few months. Of all of the many things that I learned, one of the most important ones to me is how revelation isn't always a concourse of angels singing a glorious message from God. I think that too many times we tend to think of revelations as great and glorious, when in reality, that's hardly the case. One example: my companion and I both have prayed a few times to know if a certain investigator (with some serious problems) would be ready for baptism on this weekend, or the next. After a short prayer, we both sat and pondered. We both came up with the same answer, both times. It wasn't an earthquake or anything, just a still small voice. I explained to someone that revelation is when the Lord "reveals" heavenly knowledge, and there are many ways he can do that.
Hearing from you guys each week empowers me with new resolve to work harder for you. Jotty told me a little bit about all that you have had to do to the house. I'm so glad you taught me how to work. One of the members was really impressed with me when we helped him move gravel into his yard for landscaping (something I'm all too familiar with). He said that by the time he had smoothed out the rocks I dumped, I was already back with a new barrow-full of rocks. It's kinda funny to hear him talk about it.
We've got two baptisms this Saturday and transfers are also next week. I've been here in this particular area for 6 months so far, and president said I might be here for another transfer. We shall see what time has in store for me.
I'm already starting to lose a little bit of the weight that I recently gained. The tough part is doing low carbs - Mexicans eat a lot of carbs.
Be happy. Remember that even though times can get rough, Jesus Christ "has descended below them all." (D&C Section 122- my favorite section). Take care!!!!
(more “zombie” remarks to Jim)Don't worry about the Boomers Dad. They ended up being easy targets in the rain. It flooded a little bit out here, so they just floated like buoys. Easy kills.
Mission date: 28 October
Wow.....the pictures of the house looks great!!!
It's a lot colder up here in Ely, but I'm managing. It's dry, so I'm doing good. The people here are very nice…it reminds me of back home. Ely is 3 hours south of Elko, but 4 hours north of Vegas. It was snowing when we got here. We're about a mile above sea level here in Ely, so the elevation is a killer. I noticed that I get winded easier up here than I did in Vegas. My companion and I cover an entire stake here. We have certain days where we go to different towns…sometimes we're on the road for 45 minutes. One of these days we'll be traveling to a town that is 90 miles away to visit a less active member. There are no other elders here except for a senior couple who work on a ranch. All other missionaries live at least 3 hours away in all directions. We really should be grateful that in Enterprise we have two missionaries assigned to the ward. These people don't have that kind of blessing here. They love us though. The work is slower too.. The towns are small and not too many people but there are baptisms. We normally work off of member referrals. Actually, member referrals are one of the most effective ways to work, so that's why Elko zone is called the Promised Land of the Las Vegas Mission.
My companion, Elder Aguilar is a native speaker, but he speaks both. We're both excited to have a companion that speaks good Spanish. I'm still getting compliments on my Spanish. After studying Spanish for so long, and thinking about it, I might actually want to major in linguistics instead of vet medicine, but we'll see about that after I get back.
Luis got baptized last Saturday. He invited his family and his girlfriend and her family too.
Arlene has to wait until this Saturday. I won't be able to go down for the baptism, but I'm still very happy for her. She has an actual testimony, so I know that she's not converting for the missionaries.
There aren't too many Hispanics here, but we’re teaching a couple. We are hoping to organize a Spanish branch, but we'll see how that goes. Also, to let you know, we cover two Shoshone colonies and a Shoshone reservation. I thought you might find that interesting. Remind me again of my American Indian heritage? I know I've got blood from both you and Mom, but I'm not sure what and how much. People still can't figure out what ethnicity I am. I love it.
All in all, I like it a lot here. It's cold, it's quiet, it's friendly, and it's snowing. I just got called as district leader here. It was a surprise call too. Normally they call you a day or two in advance, before transfers, to tell you. I found out as soon as I got here. It's not a big district: me, my companion, and the senior couple. I still enjoy preparing trainings to help the couple out. They have questions on how to teach well, or how to handle certain situations. We'll be preparing training to help them from here on out.
(more Zombie talk)The zombies are a little more prominent here, but it's like back home here. Everyone hunts, so everyone has a gun and knows how to use it, so even though there are many infected here, no one worries. They even have Zombie Season out here. I've seen some pretty cool taxidermied ones. People aren't scared to bother them down here. They say that all the moping and crying they do scares away all the deer, so they take them out first. One guy even has a “tank” trophy in his garage-it's huge!
Mission date: 4 November
Things are good here mission-wise. We just had a mission wide conference call with the president. We talked about the mission goal of 1200 baptisms, and right now, we have 935. We are going to begin a fast on 6:00 this Saturday night, sacrifice something for the next 8 weeks, and go to work. It's going to be hard, but I know President Christensen is an inspired man, so this will work. I'm very excited right now.
Most of the missionary housing in this mission is with members, but not all. Right now we’re in a house that’s a spare house owned by a member.
Wow.... I've already been out a year. This time has gone by very fast. I'm kinda bummed … I don't have much more time left. Before you know it, I'll be home, 21 and a return missionary. I hope that I can do what I need to do in the time that I have left.
We have a bunch of people that are getting baptized. Most of the work we do involves members, and it's working. It goes to show that the people who are most likely to accept the Gospel are our friends.
Sorry about the knee Dad. I hope the new drugs will work. If not, just hold out until I get back and then you can retire. I'll go to work for you. I've learned how to effectively hunt zombies while out here in Ely, so maybe I can start a zombie extermination business down there. Of course, you can take part in it too if you'd like. I'd put you as lead producer of new anti-zombie weapons. In all seriousness though, I hope that when I get back and start working I can lift some burden off of you and mom.
Love you very much. Take care an be happy!
Con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Sunday, September 5, 2010
August 12th, 2010
Time's gone by pretty fast. I've been out here for about 9 1/2 months, and yet I remember clearly being in the MTC with the Dork Dot on my tag.
Things are going awesome with my new companion. We've got two baptisms coming up; Pablo and Yolanda. They both have a testimony of the Book of Mormon, and they both believe that Joseph Smith is the prophet of the Restoration. They are rock solid. Yolanda was investigating some time ago, but stopped for some reason (this was before I got here to this area). We finally found her and had an appointment with her. We set her for baptism and we've got some ward coordination going on. We're still working with Arlene. She's not getting any support from her parents. She has been progressing though.
My Spanish has been improving a TON. I've been speaking a lot more and I can understand a lot better too, though I'm still not 100%. It bugs me at times, but I try not to let it get to me. My companion is asking me questions on how to say things, so that keeps me on my toes. We've been talking to a lot of people too. Quite funny experiences. There was this one time where we were getting back to our apartment for the night, and we said hey to this one woman who was pressing the button for the walk signal. I believe the conversation went along the lines of this:
Me: "Hey! How are you tonight?"
Her: “ ^%$# you!"
Yep..... I'm pretty sure that's how it went. I just laughed, said okie-dokie, and went off. I don't know why people do that, but I guess she was just having a bad day.
The weather is starting to get a tiny bit cooler... not too much though - It still gets over a 100 degrees; but we've been weathering the weather. hahaha. My bike got a couple flats. There are these little things called “goat head“… a little ball with 5 or 6 long spikes that go right through.
I hope that all is going well with you, sounds like you've been pretty busy. Just remember to have fun while you work. Take care and be happy! I love you lots!!!!!!! Thanks for your love and support.
Con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Aug 19th
Thanks for sharing that spiritual experience with me. I think it's interesting how the spirit will fill our minds with ideas while we are asleep. That happened with a mission president’s wife in Chile just before that big earthquake happened. She got the prompting that the missionaries needed to prepare for an earthquake, and so they did. When the earthquake hit, nothing happened to the missionaries.
I also had a spiritual experience: We have an investigator that talked with the bishop. The missionaries have been teaching him for quite a while. He never wanted to accept a baptismal date until recently. The bishop helped him resolve his doubts and helped him prepare for baptism. He wanted to get baptized this Saturday (Aug 21). We felt that Saturday was too soon, but we knew that he could be baptized with a little more preparation. So, my companion (the greenie that I'm training) and I knelt down and had a prayer. We prayed to know when Luis should be baptized...then we sat and listened for a while. Then the Spirit told me September 11th. I asked Elder Meiners if he was feeling any prompting from the Spirit. He said the same thing- Sept 11th. We talked with Luis about it and he agreed to prepare himself for this date. How cool huh?
So, Pablo is getting baptized this Saturday, and Yolanda and her husband are set for the 4th of September. Luis is for the 11th and we might get to baptize Arlene on the 11th. It depends on some stuff she needs to take care of.
I'm still trying to eat healthy. I'm trying to lose a little more weight and gain some more muscle mass. It's SOOOO hard to exercise in the mornings. It's not that I don't want to exercise, it's that I 'm so sleepy. The willpower isn't there.
I heard that someone broke into your van this time. Man...that really stinks. I kinda wish I could come back so I could set a trap. Wouldn't that be awesome? Catch them and then call the cops. bahahahahahahahh............... ok. I'll go ahead and close before my imagination runs too wild. I love you guys!
I love you lotz!!!!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Aug 26
Don’t worry about the flats, I can take care of them. The bike is still so AWESOME. It rides really smooth. I named her “Diamante” (Spanish for Diamond - the bike is a Diamondback brand)
We baptized Pablo last Saturday. It was my companion's first baptism. I confirmed him the following day. He is quite a strong convert. When we first met him (he had already been taught two or three times by other missionaries), I asked him if he had a testimony of Joseph Smith as a prophet and if he believed the Book of Mormon was true. He said yes to both of them. As we taught him the rest of the Doctrine of the church and the commandments required for baptism, he accepted everything we taught as truth. Having a testimony of the restoration and the Book of Mormon really helps one understand and gain a testimony of everything else.
I've been reading “Jesus the Christ” during personal study lately, and I've begun to have a better understand of how Christ worked. He really took His calling seriously. It made me think of how I need to take MY calling seriously too, since I am His representative in this area. I also noticed how he had a perfect balance between boldness and softness in His teaching. I also learned something in the temple today: Service is an eternal principal. Heavenly Father did so much for us... He created the world, gave us a Savior, to create the plan, and STILL He works to serve us and to help us. No wonder He wants us to learn how to serve others. There's no way we can be like Him if we don’t know how to serve.
Thanks for teaching me how to work hard. It's really been helping me out here in the mission. I love you!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Sept 2
Sorry that the emails are getting shorter. It is hard though like you said, I do have a lot of emails to write.
The mission is getting even better! The transfer is almost over, and we still have 3 more baptisms to do. Luis (our baptism for next week) has a problem with smoking, and is trying harder than ever to quit. If you wouldn't mind, could you remember him in your prayers? He'd greatly appreciate it. So, we have two people getting baptized on this Saturday and one more next Saturday. If there's one thing I’ve learned while serving here, it was patience. I can see how work is always worth the effort, even though you don't see the blessing come immediately. They do always come, but only in the Lord's time. I did feel like giving up on a couple of investigators, and I really did want to leave this particular area for a while. But now, I see the fruits of my labor. It's kinda like Abinadi; he actually had no idea that he had touched the heart of Alma, and he died not knowing of the "small" success that he had. But what did Alma do? He ended up raising a whole nation to the Gospel, and gave birth to some of the world's greatest missionaries, who in turn, converted nations of Godless people to the true Gospel of Jesus Christ.
I talked with the Bike guy in the stake, and he said that my problem could have been was that my tires were under inflated. I've only been putting in 40 pounds in my tires, but my I'm actually supposed to put in 65 pounds. No wonder I've been having problems… duh. hahaha
I did thank Anna already for the camera she‘s sending. I have such cool sisters…but they get it from you Mom. BTW Mom, your way of teaching is actually how missionaries teach. We always ask questions because it gets people to teach themselves. Christ asked TONS of questions. You are following the Savior's example as a Master Teacher. You are amazing- don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
I didn't read the email from Jotty yet, but I'll get to it after this. From the looks of it, if Jotty continues to prepare, he will be a better missionary than I am before he leaves on his mission. As for my mission, thanks for your prayers and love.
I'll write you first next week so that you'll get a bigger email, ok?
I can't think of anything for my birthday right now. Lemme get back to you on that one next week. Take care and be happy!! I love you all!
con mucho amor,
Elder Miles Parker
Time's gone by pretty fast. I've been out here for about 9 1/2 months, and yet I remember clearly being in the MTC with the Dork Dot on my tag.
Things are going awesome with my new companion. We've got two baptisms coming up; Pablo and Yolanda. They both have a testimony of the Book of Mormon, and they both believe that Joseph Smith is the prophet of the Restoration. They are rock solid. Yolanda was investigating some time ago, but stopped for some reason (this was before I got here to this area). We finally found her and had an appointment with her. We set her for baptism and we've got some ward coordination going on. We're still working with Arlene. She's not getting any support from her parents. She has been progressing though.
My Spanish has been improving a TON. I've been speaking a lot more and I can understand a lot better too, though I'm still not 100%. It bugs me at times, but I try not to let it get to me. My companion is asking me questions on how to say things, so that keeps me on my toes. We've been talking to a lot of people too. Quite funny experiences. There was this one time where we were getting back to our apartment for the night, and we said hey to this one woman who was pressing the button for the walk signal. I believe the conversation went along the lines of this:
Me: "Hey! How are you tonight?"
Her: “ ^%$# you!"
Yep..... I'm pretty sure that's how it went. I just laughed, said okie-dokie, and went off. I don't know why people do that, but I guess she was just having a bad day.
The weather is starting to get a tiny bit cooler... not too much though - It still gets over a 100 degrees; but we've been weathering the weather. hahaha. My bike got a couple flats. There are these little things called “goat head“… a little ball with 5 or 6 long spikes that go right through.
I hope that all is going well with you, sounds like you've been pretty busy. Just remember to have fun while you work. Take care and be happy! I love you lots!!!!!!! Thanks for your love and support.
Con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Aug 19th
Thanks for sharing that spiritual experience with me. I think it's interesting how the spirit will fill our minds with ideas while we are asleep. That happened with a mission president’s wife in Chile just before that big earthquake happened. She got the prompting that the missionaries needed to prepare for an earthquake, and so they did. When the earthquake hit, nothing happened to the missionaries.
I also had a spiritual experience: We have an investigator that talked with the bishop. The missionaries have been teaching him for quite a while. He never wanted to accept a baptismal date until recently. The bishop helped him resolve his doubts and helped him prepare for baptism. He wanted to get baptized this Saturday (Aug 21). We felt that Saturday was too soon, but we knew that he could be baptized with a little more preparation. So, my companion (the greenie that I'm training) and I knelt down and had a prayer. We prayed to know when Luis should be baptized...then we sat and listened for a while. Then the Spirit told me September 11th. I asked Elder Meiners if he was feeling any prompting from the Spirit. He said the same thing- Sept 11th. We talked with Luis about it and he agreed to prepare himself for this date. How cool huh?
So, Pablo is getting baptized this Saturday, and Yolanda and her husband are set for the 4th of September. Luis is for the 11th and we might get to baptize Arlene on the 11th. It depends on some stuff she needs to take care of.
I'm still trying to eat healthy. I'm trying to lose a little more weight and gain some more muscle mass. It's SOOOO hard to exercise in the mornings. It's not that I don't want to exercise, it's that I 'm so sleepy. The willpower isn't there.
I heard that someone broke into your van this time. Man...that really stinks. I kinda wish I could come back so I could set a trap. Wouldn't that be awesome? Catch them and then call the cops. bahahahahahahahh............... ok. I'll go ahead and close before my imagination runs too wild. I love you guys!
I love you lotz!!!!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Aug 26
Don’t worry about the flats, I can take care of them. The bike is still so AWESOME. It rides really smooth. I named her “Diamante” (Spanish for Diamond - the bike is a Diamondback brand)
We baptized Pablo last Saturday. It was my companion's first baptism. I confirmed him the following day. He is quite a strong convert. When we first met him (he had already been taught two or three times by other missionaries), I asked him if he had a testimony of Joseph Smith as a prophet and if he believed the Book of Mormon was true. He said yes to both of them. As we taught him the rest of the Doctrine of the church and the commandments required for baptism, he accepted everything we taught as truth. Having a testimony of the restoration and the Book of Mormon really helps one understand and gain a testimony of everything else.
I've been reading “Jesus the Christ” during personal study lately, and I've begun to have a better understand of how Christ worked. He really took His calling seriously. It made me think of how I need to take MY calling seriously too, since I am His representative in this area. I also noticed how he had a perfect balance between boldness and softness in His teaching. I also learned something in the temple today: Service is an eternal principal. Heavenly Father did so much for us... He created the world, gave us a Savior, to create the plan, and STILL He works to serve us and to help us. No wonder He wants us to learn how to serve others. There's no way we can be like Him if we don’t know how to serve.
Thanks for teaching me how to work hard. It's really been helping me out here in the mission. I love you!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Sept 2
Sorry that the emails are getting shorter. It is hard though like you said, I do have a lot of emails to write.
The mission is getting even better! The transfer is almost over, and we still have 3 more baptisms to do. Luis (our baptism for next week) has a problem with smoking, and is trying harder than ever to quit. If you wouldn't mind, could you remember him in your prayers? He'd greatly appreciate it. So, we have two people getting baptized on this Saturday and one more next Saturday. If there's one thing I’ve learned while serving here, it was patience. I can see how work is always worth the effort, even though you don't see the blessing come immediately. They do always come, but only in the Lord's time. I did feel like giving up on a couple of investigators, and I really did want to leave this particular area for a while. But now, I see the fruits of my labor. It's kinda like Abinadi; he actually had no idea that he had touched the heart of Alma, and he died not knowing of the "small" success that he had. But what did Alma do? He ended up raising a whole nation to the Gospel, and gave birth to some of the world's greatest missionaries, who in turn, converted nations of Godless people to the true Gospel of Jesus Christ.
I talked with the Bike guy in the stake, and he said that my problem could have been was that my tires were under inflated. I've only been putting in 40 pounds in my tires, but my I'm actually supposed to put in 65 pounds. No wonder I've been having problems… duh. hahaha
I did thank Anna already for the camera she‘s sending. I have such cool sisters…but they get it from you Mom. BTW Mom, your way of teaching is actually how missionaries teach. We always ask questions because it gets people to teach themselves. Christ asked TONS of questions. You are following the Savior's example as a Master Teacher. You are amazing- don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
I didn't read the email from Jotty yet, but I'll get to it after this. From the looks of it, if Jotty continues to prepare, he will be a better missionary than I am before he leaves on his mission. As for my mission, thanks for your prayers and love.
I'll write you first next week so that you'll get a bigger email, ok?
I can't think of anything for my birthday right now. Lemme get back to you on that one next week. Take care and be happy!! I love you all!
con mucho amor,
Elder Miles Parker
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Aug 5, 2010
Yes. I got both packages. Thank you and tell the Todd's I said thank you too. You guys sent a load of stuff. I didn't have to buy much today. Just some milk, tajin powder, T.P., and Mexican candy. Mexican candy is weird, but I like it. I think it's an acquired taste.
People in the ward treat us nicely, but that's about it. Spanish people are a little too nice to say no, so they say yes (to whatever it is they say they'll do) and then bail out at the last minute. I still like them though. Some of them are mega-awesome members.
Well, welfare problems are over, but thank you for the help. I understand it a lot better now.
It's funny how you mentioned that now that I've been out this long (8 months), I'd start getting leadership positions. Well.... now I'm training a new missionary that just got off the plane. His name is Elder Meiners. He is from Maryland, and from a family of 8. I'm a Dad - hahahaha. We got off to a really good start, and he and I get along very well. He has a really strong desire to serve, has a great heart and is a hard worker . His Spanish is pretty good too, cuz he had 2 years in high school. I'm glad I got a good “son“. I was really worried that I'd have to put up with a hard-headed, immature missionary. But this guy is nothing like that. He is the man.
To answer your question mom, my last companion was Elder Berkey. We got along really well. He’s from Gary, Indiana, but didn't like it when people would start singing the Music Man, so he said he was from Chicago, (which is technically right..he was only a short drive away from Chicago). He really helped me get over smaller things and how not to worry and stress out.
Yes, I am wearing sunscreen, but only on certain occasions. I don't wear it every day, but I don't get burned either. The bike helmet shades my face, and of course I'm wearing slacks. I thought it was pretty strange that the sun is extremely strong over here, very bright, yet I don't get burned. I think it's because I've been gradually getting used to it. My legs are REALLY white but my face and arms are tan. Just to let you know that although the weather is awfully hot, is not that bad. Humidity is the worst during the heat, and because we have negative humidity (not really, but it is REALLY dry here), I can take the heat despite sweating a lot. (yucky)
It's good to hear that all is going well, even though you are busy. I appreciate you guys continuing to email me every week. I love you very much and I hope that you are able to have the strength to do what you need to get done. I'm glad for the example that you've set for me. Take care!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
Yes. I got both packages. Thank you and tell the Todd's I said thank you too. You guys sent a load of stuff. I didn't have to buy much today. Just some milk, tajin powder, T.P., and Mexican candy. Mexican candy is weird, but I like it. I think it's an acquired taste.
People in the ward treat us nicely, but that's about it. Spanish people are a little too nice to say no, so they say yes (to whatever it is they say they'll do) and then bail out at the last minute. I still like them though. Some of them are mega-awesome members.
Well, welfare problems are over, but thank you for the help. I understand it a lot better now.
It's funny how you mentioned that now that I've been out this long (8 months), I'd start getting leadership positions. Well.... now I'm training a new missionary that just got off the plane. His name is Elder Meiners. He is from Maryland, and from a family of 8. I'm a Dad - hahahaha. We got off to a really good start, and he and I get along very well. He has a really strong desire to serve, has a great heart and is a hard worker . His Spanish is pretty good too, cuz he had 2 years in high school. I'm glad I got a good “son“. I was really worried that I'd have to put up with a hard-headed, immature missionary. But this guy is nothing like that. He is the man.
To answer your question mom, my last companion was Elder Berkey. We got along really well. He’s from Gary, Indiana, but didn't like it when people would start singing the Music Man, so he said he was from Chicago, (which is technically right..he was only a short drive away from Chicago). He really helped me get over smaller things and how not to worry and stress out.
Yes, I am wearing sunscreen, but only on certain occasions. I don't wear it every day, but I don't get burned either. The bike helmet shades my face, and of course I'm wearing slacks. I thought it was pretty strange that the sun is extremely strong over here, very bright, yet I don't get burned. I think it's because I've been gradually getting used to it. My legs are REALLY white but my face and arms are tan. Just to let you know that although the weather is awfully hot, is not that bad. Humidity is the worst during the heat, and because we have negative humidity (not really, but it is REALLY dry here), I can take the heat despite sweating a lot. (yucky)
It's good to hear that all is going well, even though you are busy. I appreciate you guys continuing to email me every week. I love you very much and I hope that you are able to have the strength to do what you need to get done. I'm glad for the example that you've set for me. Take care!
con mucho amor,
Elder Parker
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